Quoting Adriana's Mami♥:" Nope, not a bitch move on her part. That's life, things come up, unexpected things. Unless you want some huge fancy baby shower you could put one together in a week or two."Just have a BBQ. Thats what I did with my second. Get a cake, and table cloth and invites. Tell people it is a BBQ potluck and you will provide hot dogs or something like that. People brought kabobs to BBQ and chicken etc. I Think I spent 50 bucks on the whole thing.