re: Doctors appt. today...I really don't want to go :(

I'm a little late with this but good luck and I hope everything gets better for you.

I hope everything wentalright at the doctors for you and you got the all clear on your scan. I know it will have been hard, especiallyif therewere pregnant women waiting forscans too(that's how it was with me  )but I found it easier to look to the future once that last scan was over and done with. Best of luck.

Quoting *PetiteHaley*:“ I am sorry to hear of your loss as well. I know next time around I am going to be a nervous wreck too. ... [snip!] ... these next months for you and that you get to hold your beautiful baby . How long did you wait before you concieved again?”

Thank you and I can't wait for the day that I get to meet my precious baby and hold onto him/her as much as I want to. I don't guess I did wait. I was so anxious to conceive again. I miscarried in January, had my monthly in February and missed March's monthly and found out on April 2 that I was pregnant. You will probably be told by doctors and possibly others that you should wait 6 months but I just didn't have the patience to do that ya know. My Aunt (who use to work in a hospital) told me right after my miscarriage that when a woman has a miscarriage her body will try to get pregnant again. I don't know if it is definite but I believed her. I hope the best for your recovery and I also hope that it don't take you long to be able to be pregnant again. PLEASE, keep in touch.

Hey Haley!
It's Sarah! I hope things are going well for you. I bet you've been reading those books like they're going out of style. I did too. Everyone on the ttc/suffering and loss boards ends up being an expert on everything from conception to birth.

Wishing you the best.

**Baby dust**

Quoting sarahjames:“ Hey Haley! It's Sarah! I hope things are going well for you. I bet you've been reading those books ... [snip!] ... and loss boards ends up being an expert on everything from conception to birth. Wishing you the best. **Baby dust**”

SARAH!!!
Lol...you would not believe how many books i've gone through !!! I try to keep Lawrence informed on what i've learned, and i know he's really excited too,but sometimes he just looks lost. lol. He bought the LUNA kit for me on his way home from work so I can chart etc... He's awesome!

Quoting GnaBAMomma:“ Thank you and I can't wait for the day that I get to meet my precious baby and hold onto him/her as much ... [snip!] ... the best for your recovery and I also hope that it don't take you long to be able to be pregnant again. PLEASE, keep in touch.”

I know how you felt 'cause I am so very anxious to concieve again.If myAF comes this month we are going to start charting so hopefully the best comes of it. I have also heard that women who miscarry and who have had pregnancies to term are very fertile afterwards. We'll see what comes of it in a few months. I will most definatly keep in touch! Keep positive girl!

Quoting Star Kitten:“ I hope everything wentalright at the doctors for you and you got the all clear on your scan. I know it ... [snip!] ... how it was with me  )but I found it easier to look to the future once that last scan was over and done with. Best of luck.”

Thank you Star Kitten! It was very difficult seeing pregnant women there waiting for their scans. It has been a bit easier and I am very much looking forward to TTC again. I will never forget my baby and I know that one day we will be united again.

hey sry posting late hope its ok but talk to ur dr bout them puttin abortion on ur file they did that to me I made them change it they said its the defalt they use doesn't have to say that. and hope ur test comes positive mine had a faint line then got bighter every test I took but only ept worked for me

i hope everything is working out for you
an i know how scary that doctors appt seems
after having them tell you somethin like that
i recently went even though its real early for me why they made me idk
but they told me that ive possibly misscaried an i might have to get a D & C done now i wish the best for you

Quoting early mommy:“ i hope everything is working out for you an i know how scary that doctors appt seems after having ... [snip!] ... made me idk but they told me that ive possibly misscaried an i might have to get a D & C done now i wish the best for you”

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope everything turns out ok for you hon

Quoting Haley+DH:“ Ahhh.... Today I go for an ultrasound to make sure everything is back to normal in my uterus. I hate ... [snip!] ... able to see my little peanut. It sucks knowing that now I'm going for that ultrasound, only to see nothing.  Wish me luck!”

It's awful that you had to deal with that. When I miscarried and had to have a D&C, my paperwork said " Removal of products of conception" That just bugged the hell outta me!

Quoting Haley+DH Waiting on:“ I had a miscarriage, but the doctor wrote "Abortion" on the form. That's the medical term I guess...”

The medical term is spontanious abortion and that is what a natural miscarriage is.
I can see why it bothers you.....it bothers me too.
I've had 10 miscarriages....spontanious abortions....and it's a crule term.
Sometimes people get the terms abortion and spontanious abortion confused the diffrence is one's natural your body just couldn't handle being pregnant and the other one was purposely done because the pregnancy was unwanted.
You should ask your Dr is he can change that in your medical records to miscarriage.
Try not to worry what's written in your medical files too much.
I hope all is well with you!