did you ever have a miscarriage before an abortion?

I was just wondering. Not to be any way but when I was 15 16 and a little over a year ago I lost my pregnancies 8 7 and 6 weeks. Idk I also had from my experiences had a certain mind frame. But I didn't always want my pregnancies tbh not all of them. My second one my I got pregnant because I cheated on the guy I was with. I knew it would ruin our relationship. I do admit kind of that I did try to lose it anyway I know bad things happen and it's difficult with pregnancy involved... But I also know from my experiences like my last one was when I was 18. I was engaged and thought it was perfect timing. Well 2 weeks later I lost it again. Each time I saw it. My son or daughter's body. The second time I felt the most guilt for taking part in it for feeling at fault for it even though I hadn't had a surgical or medical abortion... Third time I felt like I was broken... Why I keep miscarrying for no reason well the first two times I didn't have a dr involved and the third time had no real by ob besides that it happens. I have at my mom's place for all three of them. They're all laid to rest. Waiting for me in heaven. I named them all and they'll all be apart of me, They're my kids despite that I can't hold them in my arms here. I wanted to so badly but I felt like it would seem crazy so I didn't Their deaths have ruined my relationships and impacted my life so much it was harder each time to pretend to move on. Idk how I could chose this for myself ever. It's not like the situation severity matters. I was pregnant from rape the first time. I loved my baby very much. I used to have all this maternal love. I'll be always in a far better situation than when I miscarried at 15. I don't know I mean logically I could see why someone could support an abortion but I can't see it in that if I could love then. Then why not now and always. I mean I guess I'm just wondering do people ever have abortions after miscarrying? Especially in unplanned but wanted pregnancies that miscarried? Why did you do it? I'm not sure what I'm considering more curious is it possible to miscarry and then abort? I am like not really taking this seriously I think because of my past I guess I'm still shocked to believe he/she is still here and 12 weeks pregnant. Yet I don't feel what I did before like the love. Idk why... I guess this is me inquiring about this option and on others opinions....

huh?
im so confused.

Quoting lamr - momma of 2:" huh? im so confused."

She wants to know if anyone has ever had a miscarriage before an abortion.

Quoting lamr - momma of 2:" huh? im so confused."

Well I am a girl who's had 3 miscarriage now pregnant and inquiring bout abortion

<blockquote><b>Quoting teenpreggonsingle:</b>" I was just wondering. Not to be any way but when I was 15 16 and a little over a year ago I lost my pregnancies ... [snip!] ... feel what I did before like the love. Idk why... I guess this is me inquiring about this option and on others opinions...."</blockquote>




I got pregnant at 16 with my first (no one knows about him) except his dad & a few people. I ended up having a miscarriage in June of 2008. It was hard, moreao because I seen him-seen his parts knowing he was a boy-wondering if it was something I had done. His father and I named him Jaunte Genesis (genesis meaning "the beginning"). I got pregnant in oct 2009 at age 17 (same guy) another boy-we named him KeiOntai' Exodus (exodus meaning "the end") because Mann was the end of my bd & myself. However when Mann was 3 months old we got back together & July 2010 we conceived yet another baby boy who we named Rai'Jahn Bronx (bd picked the name)...I swear BX was a twin that "vanished" because all the signs I had-their last name is AARON-Mann (Aaron means strength/strong).

Gl!

Quoting * Sara *:" She wants to know if anyone has ever had a miscarriage before an abortion."

idk how I'd cope with one considering my history

Ladies, this is is Abortion Survivors. It's a protected forum. If you don't agree please do not post. It's not needed nor wanted here.

OP, I wish you the best of luck.

Quoting brandi "

This is a protected forum, please keep your opinions to yourself. She's asking for support not criticism

Quoting teenpreggonsingle:" idk how I'd cope with one considering my history"

Have you looked into talking to a professional? It could really help you. Good luck to you sweetie.

Quoting L✌J:" This is a protected forum, please keep your opinions to yourself. She's asking for support not criticism"

Please delete your quote. Once a post is hidden anyone who quotes them can be modded.

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" Please delete your quote. Once a post is hidden anyone who quotes them can be modded."

I deleted what she said' it doesnt show anything

Quoting lamr - momma of 2:

you're right I was just asking. But adoption and abortion just don't seem sensible I guess I just wait to mc or single parent. Idk

Quoting teenpreggonsingle:" you're right I was just asking. But adoption and abortion just don't seem sensible I guess I just wait to mc or single parent. Idk"

good luck!

and i dont think what i said was being rude or inappropriate. not sure why it was banned.