re: Advice on abortion

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" Well, I was miscarrying and had a ... [snip!] ... What about the vacuum? The thought of hearing them kick that on scares the living crap out of me."

The vacuum is loud....I'm not going to lie to you....they switched it on....and i just started bawling.

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" This is just me personally, but I wouldn't go for the pill. I've known a lot of people who had complications ... [snip!] ... that happened to you. Of course, I don't know if all the same stuff applies to abortions, but I'd assume they were similar."

you wouldnt pay anymore if the pill didnt "clear" everything out. if the pill didnt clear you out then you can get the D and C. ETA: free of charge.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" http://philadelphiawomensce.reachlocal.com/?scid=2039709&kw=947995 I think you should call there. ... [snip!] ... if I'm allowed to link anything on here. I don't know the rules. If Im not allowed, someone please tell me so I can delete it."</blockquote>




I appreciate that, thank you. I'm going to call tomorrow.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" If you cant do philly look at the one in wilmington.. I know its an hour and 15 minutes away, but maybe they would have it cheaper. I think mine ws 380... "</blockquote>




Pill? That's more then the local will cost. Including gas and tolls  

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" If you cant do philly look at the one in wilmington.. ... [snip!] ... cheaper. I think mine ws 380... "</blockquote> Pill? That's more then the local will cost. Including gas and tolls  "

Im sorry.   Im just trying to help.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting sueforizzle:</b>" The vacuum is loud....I'm not going to lie to you....they switched it on....and i just started bawling. "</blockquote>




Im deathly afraid that will be me.

Quoting Link:" you wouldnt pay anymore if the pill didnt "clear" everything out. if the pill didnt clear you out then you can get the D and C. ETA: free of charge. "

All the time? I have no idea, but it seems like if you're paying out of pocket, they wouldn't throw in the D&C, too. I just couldn't take the pain. They were afraid I was going to need a blood transfusion and the D&C was a godsend after all of that.

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" All the time? I have no idea, but it seems like if you're paying out of pocket, they wouldn't throw ... [snip!] ... take the pain. They were afraid I was going to need a blood transfusion and the D&C was a godsend after all of that."

Thats what they told me after I got the pill. They said if I came back and the pill didnt clear everything, I would get a D and C.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" Im sorry.   Im just trying to help.   "</blockquote>




I know! I appreciate it very much. I just think about how much money everything is going to cost.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" I am currently 5 weeks. I know for sure an abortion is what I want. I have a 2.5 yr old and and 1 year ... [snip!] ... had the procedure where they are fully aware? I am freaking out at the thought of being awake. Please! Help me feel better ;("

Can you bring a family member, friend, or your SO with you? If so, then bring them for support! Good luck hun.  

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" Im sorry.   Im just trying to help.   "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ...   "</blockquote> I know! I appreciate it very much. I just think about how much money everything is going to cost."

I know.   It sucks.  

if you are 5 weeks, there is an option of the pill, and cervix thing (not sure what its called) i know its cheaper though i do believe