re: Advice on abortion

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" Well, I was miscarrying and had a D&C and it was local. I imagine it's probably like the same thing, ... [snip!] ... was unpleasant, but I would just bring an iPod or something if I had to have another. It was just this yucky squelching sound."</blockquote>




What about the vacuum? The thought of hearing them kick that on scares the living crap out of me.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" You cant do the abortion pill??? Where in NJ are ... [snip!] ... procedures on sliding scales. I'm pretty far from DE, I'm near Trenton. I even considered adoption but I know I cannot do that."

Near Trenton? Did you call any PP offices around Philadelphia? A friend of mine got the abortion pill for 200.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" You cant do the abortion pill??? Where in NJ are ... [snip!] ... procedures on sliding scales. I'm pretty far from DE, I'm near Trenton. I even considered adoption but I know I cannot do that."

damn.   Im sorry I wish you were closer here because they do it on a sliding scale. Did you look at the http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about1512488.html to see if there was something for NJ?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" It's silly that it's so expensive...Wow, they really back people in a corner don't they? Good luck to you. I hope maybe they can do a payment plan or something!"</blockquote>




I wish. They all want it upfront  

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" Near Trenton? Did you call any PP offices around Philadelphia? A friend of mine got the abortion pill for 200."</blockquote>




I actually live in morrisville, right across the Trenton makes bridge. I didn't try philly. It never occurred to me, actually.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" damn.   Im sorry I wish you were closer here because they do it on a sliding scale. Did you look at the http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about1512488.html to see if there was something for NJ? "</blockquote>




I did and it's only for north jersey, of course.

Quoting Vodka Knockers:" It's silly that it's so expensive...Wow, they really back people in a corner don't they? Good luck to you. I hope maybe they can do a payment plan or something!"

They really do. And it really sucks that the government doesnt help out with abortion... But would fund for unwanted pregnancies and baby stuff...

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" It's silly that it's so expensive...Wow, ... [snip!] ... luck to you. I hope maybe they can do a payment plan or something!"</blockquote> I wish. They all want it upfront  "

...That's horrible...Even a dentist office will work with you on payments and that's just teeth.
I feel for you hon, I hope it all works out, I really do. I can't imagine how hard it is to be in that situation and not have the money to do it and live comfortably.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" Well, I was miscarrying and had a ... [snip!] ... What about the vacuum? The thought of hearing them kick that on scares the living crap out of me."

I'm feeling like an idiot right now because I can't think of its name but I didn't have a vacuum (or at least I wouldn't call it one). You know with baby Tylenol and the like how they have that suction thingy? It was a big one of those.

http://philadelphiawomensce.reachlocal.com/?scid=2039709&kw=947995

I think you should call there.
and Actually I dont know if I'm allowed to link anything on here. I don't know the rules. If Im not allowed, someone please tell me so I can delete it.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" Near Trenton? Did you call any PP offices ... [snip!] ... I actually live in morrisville, right across the Trenton makes bridge. I didn't try philly. It never occurred to me, actually."

If you cant do philly look at the one in wilmington.. I know its an hour and 15 minutes away, but maybe they would have it cheaper. I think mine ws 380...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" ...That's horrible...Even a dentist office will work with you on payments and that's just teeth. I feel ... [snip!] ... out, I really do. I can't imagine how hard it is to be in that situation and not have the money to do it and live comfortably."</blockquote>




Thanks. I am just saving up my portion of the cost and my dh is giving me the other half. Between rent and daycare, it feels like its going to take forever to save. I've booked my appointment for the 16.

This is just me personally, but I wouldn't go for the pill. I've known a lot of people who had complications or they couldn't take the pain and they ended up getting a D&C anyway. So you'd be paying twice as much if something like that happened to you.
Of course, I don't know if all the same stuff applies to abortions, but I'd assume they were similar.

Quoting A&J. ♥:" http://philadelphiawomensce.reachlocal.com/?scid=2039709&kw=947995 I think you should call there. ... [snip!] ... if I'm allowed to link anything on here. I don't know the rules. If Im not allowed, someone please tell me so I can delete it."

your allowed.

When I was looking funding for my almost abortion, people linked stuff to me on here.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" I'm feeling like an idiot right now because I can't think of its name but I didn't have a vacuum (or ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't call it one). You know with baby Tylenol and the like how they have that suction thingy? It was a big one of those."</blockquote>




Oh yes, an aspirator?