My breakup *update*

When Chris and I broke up I thought that a few days apart would make both of us do some soul searching. He spent those 2 days drinking with friends, talking to his ex girlfriend, and riding his motorcycle.
I spent those 2 days crying and trying to figure out howto make things work. He said that he would like to work it all out so we began trying to find a compromise. His solution (are you ready for this?) was that I would cook, clean, take care of the baby, work full time, have sex with him when he wants, and let him go enjoy his single life. The only thing he would give up would be dating other women.
I told him that that wasn't acceptable. He's now also told me that I have to move out by the end of the month (the apartment is in his name) and that the motorcycle that I paid for (because he couldn't get a loan) he would not be paying me back for as we had originally agreed. I feel so fucked over and lost and hurt. I have no idea what I'm gonna do.

Quoting piratetink824:“ When Chris and I broke up I thought that a few days apart would make both of us do some soul searching. ... [snip!] ... be paying me back for as we had originally agreed. I feel so fucked over and lost and hurt. I have no idea what I'm gonna do.”

take his ass to court regarding the bike, if it comes to that... and if he wants to be a jerk and have you out of the apartment... he will look like a turd when it comes time for child support...

Omgosh! You poor thing! That is terrible! The only good I can see from him being like this is maybe it will help you get over him faster. It's better now that it be over than get married to him and find out later he's like this. I'm sorry hun, hope you feel better!

Ugh that really irritates me that he's not going to pay you back for the motorcycle! Is it in your name? Anyway you can take it since you paid for it?

Quoting piratetink824:“ When Chris and I broke up I thought that a few days apart would make both of us do some soul searching. ... [snip!] ... be paying me back for as we had originally agreed. I feel so fucked over and lost and hurt. I have no idea what I'm gonna do.”

You paid for it right? Do you have proof? If it's in your name, take it and sell it... If not, you are going to have to take him to court for it...

I just want to say that I am very sorry and that men, actually BOYS, can be such assholes.

Wow! I am so sorry he did this to you!! I know how it feels to cry and think of ways to make it better only to get shit on. Do you have somewhere to go? And is the bike completely paid for? If you are making payments in your name, take it, it is technically yours.

Quoting Sadie700 [SHIB]:“ take his ass to court regarding the bike, if it comes to that... and if he wants to be a jerk and have you out of the apartment... he will look like a turd when it comes time for child support...”

It's in his name. He couldn't get a loan for it so I said I would pay for it and he would make payments to me instead of to a bank. He has yet to make a payment (he just lost his job) and now says that he's going to consider it a "gift".

Well I remember your post the other day saying you dont think you love him anymore, etc.

I guess his actions really go to show you are doing the right thing. Its hard now, but it will get better. Who needs someone like that in their life.

Quoting piratetink824:“ It's in his name. He couldn't get a loan for it so I said I would pay for it and he would make payments ... [snip!] ... instead of to a bank. He has yet to make a payment (he just lost his job) and now says that he's going to consider it a "gift".”

Unless you said it was a gift, it's not... You are still paying for it right? I would just stop paying for it, it will mess up your credit, but they will repo the bike... LOL, that would be funny!

Quoting HeadoverHeels:“ Well I remember your post the other day saying you dont think you love him anymore, etc. I guess his ... [snip!] ... go to show you are doing the right thing. Its hard now, but it will get better. Who needs someone like that in their life.”

Yeah after the way he had been treating me I wasn't sure I cared about him...and now this shows he didn't care about me. But either way a breakup is such a hard thing to deal with. I'm relieved and excited and upset and nervous and heartbroken all at once.

Quoting ♥B♥:“ Unless you said it was a gift, it's not... You are still paying for it right? I would just stop paying for it, it will mess up your credit, but they will repo the bike... LOL, that would be funny!”

That would be hysterical....I will take him to court.

Quoting piratetink824:“ That would be hysterical....I will take him to court.”

LOL I would... I mean, no judge would be convinced that you bought that bike as a gift for someone else... that's just stupid... then no only will he have to pay you for the bike, he will also have to pay child support on top of that... what a douche!

Quoting ♥B♥:“ LOL I would... I mean, no judge would be convinced that you bought that bike as a gift for someone else... ... [snip!] ... then no only will he have to pay you for the bike, he will also have to pay child support on top of that... what a douche!”

I couldn't believe it when he said that he wants to do whatever he wants and I should cater to him. How is that fair?

Maybe just threatening to take him to court will be enough to make him quit being a douche and pay you back!

Or put some sugar in that gas tank.