re: If you love something let it go.....?

I just left my BD about a week ago because I caught him cheating on me . I didnt know I was pregnant of course. He kicked me out of our house . I know right? I found out I was pregnant after a missed period . I let him know, you know what he said? He didnt care and to leave him alone. You dont need them in your or your babys life if he doesnt want to be there. That will only cause more unneeded stress for you and your little one. You cant make them be a dad you know? But good luck to you. Just know that you can do it on your own and you will be better of in the long run anyways .

Quoting Blanca Medina:" I just left my BD about a week ago because I caught him cheating on me . I didnt know I was pregnant ... [snip!] ... you know? But good luck to you. Just know that you can do it on your own and you will be better of in the long run anyways ."

Yeah, the thing is... he wants to be in the baby's life -- just not in a family that consist of the three of us. YET he wants to live with us, hang out, etc... basically have his cake and eat it too. I'm currently doing limited contact to keep same.

But i'm sorry about what happened with you and your BD. I'm convinced that "men" contain more of the douche bag gene.

yea no i wouldnt let that one work. he wants to live with you and be there for the baby but live the single life or something like that.. partying and stuff. that doesnt work its either the baby or partying both dont work