SOMEONE please explain this to me...

Ok, can someone please explain how it's fair that DH gets to go out all night again tonight and I'm here cleaning up after the party he had last night, that he TOLD me he would clean up?! Yes, he asked me if I wanted to go, but I didn't......he also told me he'd be home at midnight.... it's 2:30 (well, almost!) It's not like he's out partying or anything. He's just fishing with the fellas so it's not like it's costing me an arm and leg, but I still don't wanna be 9 months prego cleaning up after his drunken friends while he's off having fun! UGH!

**He's really not a douche all the time, I swear.....just most! LOL!
Maybe I'm just being an overdramatic bitch, if so sorry.... I'm just grouchy, and tired, and well.... you understand!

That irritates me too.
Except my boyfriend doesn't have partys at our house 
I would not go for that at all, and either should you, expecially (sp?) if you have to clean up after it.
They should have their "boy nights" but i don't think you should be cleaning up after him.

Quoting AngMC:“ Ok, can someone please explain how it's fair that DH gets to go out all night again tonight and I'm here ... [snip!] ... LOL! Maybe I'm just being an overdramatic bitch, if so sorry.... I'm just grouchy, and tired, and well.... you understand!”

He needs some time away, too. Don't clean up after tell...tell him to do it when he comes in.

He gets time away everynight hes off... I let him live it up now b.c I know he won't be able to here in a couple weeks, if that. I wish I could just let it go... i'm totally nesting so it's bugging the crap outta me! It's not like he has partys here all the time or anything.... he rarely has them, but still. I think the thing that bugs me the most is that he tells me he'll do it, or he'll be home at a certain time. LOL I knew he wouldn't be home by midnight. I even told him he wouldn't be! LOL! But don't tell me your gonna do it if you're not! I'd rather here I'll be home when I get home than to here I'll be home at this time.... and not see ya for 5 hours after! UGH! I just felt the need to bitch for a few, but think I should just go to bed instead. LOL!

Quoting AngMC:“ He gets time away everynight hes off... I let him live it up now b.c I know he won't be able to here ... [snip!] ... and not see ya for 5 hours after! UGH! I just felt the need to bitch for a few, but think I should just go to bed instead. LOL!”

Boo  

Goodnight, good luck on feeling better!

I hear ya, and your probably worried if you dont clean up and you go into labour early you will have to clean it up when you get home and deal with a baby...
Yep, and then all the visitors will think you arent coping if the house is a mess, even if baby IS well taken care of..
My son is 19 months old, and I'll be honest, I dont wash the bath out every time, and I dont always do the dishes after every meal and hey I dont even vaccuum every week like I used to...
I figure I do what I can and as ling as my little guy is number 1 then thats all I care about...
Oh yeah, but if DH wasnts to be a lazy ass and live in a pigsty without helping to clean up, thats his prob b/c .....
I WILL NAG HIS EAR OFF AT REGULAR INTERVALS

and then he can also deal with my MELTDOWNS...
his choice,
help clean up or pay the consequences...

I u/stand what you are saying and why you feel this way,,, try not to put so much pressure on yourself... you'll be a great mum...Its just frustrating we become instant mothers of 2 or 3 when we have men around.

Fuckin A, tell me about it! We had a party last Saturday for my boyfriend's birthday.... Tonight he left the house at *2am*! I just don't see the point cuz last call is before 4.

He just came home and whined me he got hit in the face with a beer mug. Then he tried to kill a spider that was dangling about 3 feet over my head as I'm laying here in bed and he dropped it on my leg and got mad that I freaked out about it being on me!

Wtf??? I *know* that's not unreasonable!

Agh! Boys....

Quoting AngMC:“ Ok, can someone please explain how it's fair that DH gets to go out all night again tonight and I'm here ... [snip!] ... LOL! Maybe I'm just being an overdramatic bitch, if so sorry.... I'm just grouchy, and tired, and well.... you understand!”

I know what you mean about the cleaning part, I'm home all day so I clean everything! Hubby gets home from work, takes his shoes off where ever he lands, anything he eats on he leaves it where he was sitting. Im crawling out of my skin trying not to go behind him and clean it up but Its so annoying. I know he works all day but how hard is it to pick up behind yourself!

Quoting AngMC:“ He gets time away everynight hes off... I let him live it up now b.c I know he won't be able to here ... [snip!] ... and not see ya for 5 hours after! UGH! I just felt the need to bitch for a few, but think I should just go to bed instead. LOL!”

frank did the same thing right before Noah came!   sorry ang! i was so trying to get a hold of you ALL day and couldn't remember your number b/c i wasn't home! i thought the 697 part was 694! LMAO! i called some random!

Quoting Rach Lynn:“ frank did the same thing right before Noah came!   sorry ang! i was so trying to get a hold of you ... [snip!] ... of you ALL day and couldn't remember your number b/c i wasn't home! i thought the 697 part was 694! LMAO! i called some random!”

Yeah.... he didn't get home until 7:30!! Midnight my ass! Though I knew better and told him he wouldn't be home by midnight! LOL! I know, I haven't talked to you in forever. How's the puppy sit. going? We are SUPPOSED to be at the dog park right now, but someones passed out on the couch because he's a douche bag!!!! LOL!

Quoting AngMC:“ Yeah.... he didn't get home until 7:30!! Midnight my ass! Though I knew better and told him he wouldn't ... [snip!] ... going? We are SUPPOSED to be at the dog park right now, but someones passed out on the couch because he's a douche bag!!!! LOL!”

the dog is doing much better w/ potty training! i am in a funk right now that i can't seem to get out of! husbands suck!   baddddddddddddddd

Quoting Rach Lynn:“ the dog is doing much better w/ potty training! i am in a funk right now that i can't seem to get out of! husbands suck!   baddddddddddddddd”

That's good at least. Yeah they do. LOL! What are you still doing up, good grief?! You're getting as bad as me! Or is the babe up? I fell a little better though b/c when Matt finally woke up he was bawling b/c he's "So terrible to me!" and I'm "too good for/to him." Well as long as he realizes that! LOL! What are you getting into tomorrow?...well, today?

Quoting AngMC:“ That's good at least. Yeah they do. LOL! What are you still doing up, good grief?! You're getting as ... [snip!] ... me!" and I'm "too good for/to him." Well as long as he realizes that! LOL! What are you getting into tomorrow?...well, today?”

nothing at all, just cleaning! want to get together?