well dam...aint this some s***
posted 3rd May
ok..sooo lastnight i posted about my husband and how he makes me feel right. So after i got done i copied and pasted it on his yahoo im because its like useless to try and talk to him..soo his ass gets on here and reads it talking about i left some stuff out. Anyways..we had a lil talk this morning when i woke up. We where doing good until we started arguing about some pictures he had in his emails that he acted like he didnt want to erase from some hoe he once talked to. I told hiom to erase them because thats disrespectful to me.He said he would.So i say do it now. He stalls for a long ass time like he cherished them or some shit.we argued and stuff. I know when i get mad i get a lil overboard with things that i say. Thats just me and the hormones. Well then after all that he still dosent see my point or acts like he dosent atleast.So this fool tells me he wants a divorce. Im like wtf is you serious. Talking about im a mean person.No im not a mean person i just say what i fell and then some so i keep asking him is he serious he says yeah. As soon as he gets time to file or something like that.We have only been married for a month. Going togehter for a year and some change.But still how is he going to do that? i dont cheat, im very affectionate, ive been with him thru everything especially the things that if i was any other girl i would have been left his ass.I just dont get it.He totally turned everything around on my ass.Nowi really dont know what to do. And he is talking about now he dont know if the baby is his "WTFFFFF" its just real crazy around here. he has turned into a whole different person.Just think he already was thinking about this and wants to spring it up on me like i did something wrong.Shit hurts...BAD makes me feel like i made my marriage fail.Evan tho in the back of my mind i know its not me. When i said " i do" to him when we married thats what i mean thru everything the good times bad broke whatever. And he just dosent realize or care to realize i was real and always been real with and to him. Im just feeling like crap right now seriously.
quoteI have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Texas
4876 postsposted 3rd May
Awwwe girl that sucks ass! Maybe you can suggest to him a trial seperation instead of a full fledged divorce? To give you both a little space and see if that might help before you go through with an actual divorce?? He married you, he must love you! If it were me in this spot I would try the trial seperation thing adn just see how that goes. And don't ever blame yourself. Some people just grow apart you know. If it happens then at least you found out now and not much later. But I have known planty of couples that the TS worked for, including my husband and I last year before we were married.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Dothan, Alabama
801 postsposted 3rd May
i'm sorry you are going through this...but it sounds to me that he may be "talking out his ass" right now because he's mad. My friend's husband has told her wants a divorce a million times out of frustration. Give him some time to cool down, then talk about it in the morning. Hopefully things get better hun!! But why does he have pics of some girl anyways??? You are very right about that being disrespectful.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Illinois
4231 postsposted 3rd May
Sorry to hear that. I think many men say oh that's not my kid I want a DNA just to be an a$$. I agree with the other girl to see if you can just separate for awhile. He sounds like a typical man that wants to piss his wife/gf off.
quoteI have 2 kids & live in Minnesota
1470 postsposted 3rd May
Between this post and your one from last night(I just read it) it sounds like hes cheating with the girl he has pictures of. I could be wrong but thats what it seems.
My husband and I had a separation. It was aftter 9 months of marriage and two and a half years of being together. It only lasted a week.
quoteMy husband and I had a separation. It was aftter 9 months of marriage and two and a half years of being together. It only lasted a week.
I have 1 child & live in Delaware
780 postsposted 4th May
Quoting nicole.:“ Between this post and your one from last night(I just read it) it sounds like hes cheating with the girl ... [snip!] ... and I had a separation. It was aftter 9 months of marriage and two and a half years of being together. It only lasted a week.”
I agree, just by the fact that he stalled made me believe he didn't want to do something he would regret in deleting the pics. But I hope things work out I think a separation might help give him time to really think things thru, most guys don't realize what they have until it's gone.
I have 1 child & live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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