re: so0o..

Quoting brianamarie21:“ I know I will have no problems getting custody. The only thing "bad" about me is I am not working. I ... [snip!] ... and I just have to deal with him. HA! I don't know why he thinks I am so stupid. Im a criminal justice major on my 4th year...”

men crack me up sometimes!!! mine thought he was gonna get rights to his daughter at all (the judge would look at his record one time and laugh)...men never get custody unless the mom is completely messed up. but i think its a good laugh to hear what they have to say sometimes.

Quoting ~Danielle*Marie~:“ men crack me up sometimes!!! mine thought he was gonna get rights to his daughter at all (the judge ... [snip!] ... never get custody unless the mom is completely messed up. but i think its a good laugh to hear what they have to say sometimes.”

Yeah I agree.. I just keep reminding him he didn't sign the birth certificate so I can call the cops and say well it could be his kid, but Im really not sure. Yeah I will look horrible, but I will get my baby asap! And I feel good that he wants custody because I know he will stay in my son's life. My 5 yr old daughter hasn't seen her father in over a year and last summer was like the 10 th time he saw her.

yeah, it does sound horrible to say that, but it's not...if he wants he can pay for the paternity test. but yes it is good that he would stay involved...my ex pretends that he will stay involved, but i know him and he won't...he has 2 kids that he doesn't see cause he is too selfish and worried about himself. i don't plan on telling him when i am in labor and his name will not be on the birth certificate, and i don't ever want her to meet him, cause i know he will break her heart in the long run, so i don't feel bad about it all, i just wanna protect her and that is what i will do...i know he wont pay to get a paternity test, so i dont have to worry about any of that.

Quoting ~Danielle*Marie~:“ im sorry you feel that way. What happened? Hopefully it is hormones   But i am gonna be a single mom, ... [snip!] ... gets here, i will forget about his stupid ass cause all my attention will be focused on her!! so that's my plan. good luck!!!!”

I thought I'd be fine once I had my daughter,I was up untill he texted and asked to meet his daughter,so I let him meet her after all he has a right ya know,then I find out he got his ex knocked up and she is 26 weeks pregnant [32 now I'd say dont talk to either of the losers] now all I do is hurt,and hurt and hurt dont make the same mistakes I did!

Quoting Jamie&Hazel :]:“ I thought I'd be fine once I had my daughter,I was up untill he texted and asked to meet his daughter,so ... [snip!] ... [32 now I'd say dont talk to either of the losers] now all I do is hurt,and hurt and hurt dont make the same mistakes I did!”

oh God i hope i can stay strong...i get weak when it comes to him though, so i really just hope he leaves me alone!!! I asked him to just this morning...i told him to please never call me again...but i know he won't leave me alone. I am sorry you are hurting. I really am too, I just pray i stay strong for us both!!!

Quoting ~Danielle*Marie~:“ oh God i hope i can stay strong...i get weak when it comes to him though, so i really just hope he leaves ... [snip!] ... i know he won't leave me alone. I am sorry you are hurting. I really am too, I just pray i stay strong for us both!!!”

I hope you stay strong too,males are such pigs not all but that one is. 

Quoting brianamarie21:“ I know I will have no problems getting custody. The only thing "bad" about me is I am not working. I ... [snip!] ... and I just have to deal with him. HA! I don't know why he thinks I am so stupid. Im a criminal justice major on my 4th year...”

Well, if he keeps saying that he is going to leave, I would tell him the next time he says it, "Do it already." It'll catch him off guard. You don't need a guy, there are plenty of women who raise a child on their own, and do a damn good job at that. Yeah it'll be hard, but life isn't easy. He just sounds like an ass, haha. Sorry, but my radar picked up on it, lol.

it sucks and it hurts, REALLY hurts.
you just have to stay strong for you little one.
and do what's best for them.