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I know how you feel.. but trust me when I tell you having another child does not make it easier. I've though about my abortion more in the last 4 months (since I had DD) then I did in the past two years. I hope you feel better  

I'm sorry you're having a tough time. I've never had an abortion but to me a loss is a loss. It hurts just the same so I know what you're going though. My husband won't talk about the baby we lost in December and since we lost him he's kinda shut down on me. We fight more often because he's angry almost all the time and he blames it on my son acting up but sometimes I think it's just that he knows our due date is coming up and he would be holding his baby for Father's Day had we not lost him. I know it's working on him. Keep your head up and I hope things get better for you! I hope your SO comes to terms and opens up to you. I hate when they shut down like that.

Quoting mal[]function:" *Please Don't Quote I can't seem to go a single goddamn minute without thinking about the fact that ... [snip!] ... hurt so bad. And I posted in this forum so I wouldn't get smurf. So if you have something stupid to say, keep it to yourself."

I have been going thru the same thing   It's really tough especially when there's no one to talk to and if there is someone, they just don't understand. Anniversaries are the hardest...like the day you aborted, the due date, etc. The best way I have found to cope is to act like it never happened   Keep yourself occupied on those significant dates. U could def try talking to a psychologist...i backed out bc i was afraid of the judging   I hope u find peace somehow <3

I see that a lot of ppl who responded here just say that they're sorry and that doesn't help at all..if u need to talk, please PM me  

Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:" I have been going thru the same thing   It's really tough especially when there's no one to talk to ... [snip!] ... U could def try talking to a psychologist...i backed out bc i was afraid of the judging   I hope u find peace somehow <3"

Eep. OP asked anyone not to quote her.

Quoting Pregnant Hitler:" Eep. OP asked anyone not to quote her."

my bad

Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:" my bad"

Can you edit your post and unquote her?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:</b>" I see that a lot of ppl who responded here just say that they're sorry and that doesn't help at all..if u need to talk, please PM me  "</blockquote>


Thank you.
But can you please unquote me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting NIC☮LE:</b>" I know how you feel.. but trust me when I tell you having another child does not make it easier. I've ... [snip!] ... though about my abortion more in the last 4 months (since I had DD) then I did in the past two years. I hope you feel better  "</blockquote>

Im sorry   that makes me nervous for when I do have a baby.