How do you leave

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and at first it was great. Now that we are havinga baby he act like I am nobody. I come second and sometimes third to everyone and everything else. I could not even get him to go to one doctors visit with me. Thats sad. Now that the baby is due any day now he tells me he is not ready because he still wants to be able to go out with his friend and to the regga club. I am seriously tired and I want to leave but my heart wont let me. How do leave or should I stay for the sake of the child?

dont ever stay just for ur child....its not healthy for the baby if yall dont even really get along....slap him with child support and enjoy ur baby...single moms do just as a good a job as married or in realtionship couples

Quoting Loved One:“ I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and at first it was great. Now that we are havinga baby he ... [snip!] ... I am seriously tired and I want to leave but my heart wont let me. How do leave or should I stay for the sake of the child?”

Hun, you have to do what is best for the baby. In my opinion staying with him just for the baby isn't the right thing. Trust me my mom stayed with my dad til I was 18 because she thought it was "best" and it's just harder. You obviously care about him and love him, but he needs to put the same amount as effort into this as you. Maybe if you do leave him, it will be a reality check for him.

If your going to be a single mom even with him around and have to deal with his BS your better off by yourself, its not healthy for your baby either... and i agree dont stay just cuz of the baby... and ya slap his ass with child support.. He should of thought bout not being ready and wanting to go to clubs ect b4 laying down....

Quoting Loved One:“ I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and at first it was great. Now that we are havinga baby he ... [snip!] ... I am seriously tired and I want to leave but my heart wont let me. How do leave or should I stay for the sake of the child?”

Its never right to stay in a relationshp for a child, that will be worse on your baby than to not be together, you guys don't have to be together to be good parents to your baby. Maybe it would be better for the both of you to not be together. I'm sorry you have to go through that, its never easy to deal with a bad relationship while pregnant, but we are all here for you! I hope things get better for you soon!

Quoting Loved One:“ I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and at first it was great. Now that we are havinga baby he ... [snip!] ... I am seriously tired and I want to leave but my heart wont let me. How do leave or should I stay for the sake of the child?”

Don't stay because you think the child will be better with you two together... It will suck now, but once you are gone, things will be sooooo much easier and better for you with out him. Hope things work out for you.