Quoting Bethy-poodles:" Most definitely not okay, at all, to bring a child in to any conversation at anytime in a negative way. But she was being rash and abrasive before her baby even got mentioned. "
Her advice wasn't the nicest, but it WAS honest. I'd rather get honest advice than get rainbows and unicorns thrown at me. She told OP to go to the ER, and I think she said something like getting into the middle of the fight was a BAD idea.
Actually, she said this. " OP- you don't need to explain yourself. Especially right now. If I were you I'd get off the computer and go to the ER. Come back and argue when you know what's going on with your baby. Seriously. "
She gave NICE advice. Then she said this, " That's life sugar britches. It's the internet. Don't get your knickers all bunched up over it. " when the smurf nugget who called her kid ugly said that people were being rude, which NO ONE was. Hell, even OP didn't seem to have an issue with the advice being given.
It was Lindsey and the other people who were making the same "BG bitches are rude" argument that's been said a dozen times that started this thread going to drama. Manda didn't start smurf.