re: 18 pregnant with twins and three kids by three different par

Also I forgot to add.. I had an abortion and I placed a child for adoption and I was in a position just like yours.. my youngest sons father has 2 other sons by 2 other moms, plus mine.. and lord only knows how many other kids. So if you want to talk to me about anything please PM me.  

Good luck, I'm sorry that you're having a tough time. I know down in my heart of hearts as much as I wouldn't want to, I would either abort or adopt out, most likely adoption but like the ladies said, ultimately it is your decision and nobody should try to influence you unless they are being supportive. I really hope that everything works out for you and once again, good luck.

Personally I would choose abortion. Just because the kids are born doesn't mean he will pay child support. You have to decide if you want to take care of these kids by yourself. Sorry you are going through this.

Maybe think about adoption?

Quoting Thread Killa:" Personally I would choose abortion. Just because the kids are born doesn't mean he will pay child support. ... [snip!] ... pay child support. You have to decide if you want to take care of these kids by yourself. Sorry you are going through this."

this!

and lord only knows how much in CS if you choose to get CS you will get from him is.

I also should say... My SO has another son... and the mother has constantly caused me and my family nothing but problems so I totally understand where you come from with her wanting to fight you and other childish things... Stay strong and message me if you need someone to talk to!

Quoting Link:" this! and lord only knows how much in CS if you choose to get CS you will get from him is. "

I know!!! She could get $1.49 like what that dumb ass with the 30 kids pays to some of his children a month.  

This sounds nearly identical to what a friend of mine is going through right now although she already had the babies. Like everyone else has said, you are going to have to live with this decision for the rest of your life. Do what you feel is best.

Quoting Thread Killa:" I know!!! She could get $1.49 like what that dumb ass with the 30 kids pays to some of his children a month.  "

I would have only gotten like 25 bucks if I had kept ethan in CS from his dad.  

Quoting P@m3L@!!:"

Please remove this.

You are in AS.

Quoting Link:" I would have only gotten like 25 bucks if I had kept ethan in CS from his dad.  "

Wow that's just ridiculous. Some people need to be castrated.

If *I* were in your shoes, I would personally abort, but I'm not you - do you have a support system outside of this man? If he isn't supporting his other children, you most likely can write him off as a deadbeat.

But as others have said - it's a choice you will need to make quickly or you won't have a choice at all.

Quoting Thread Killa:" Wow that's just ridiculous. Some people need to be castrated. "

yeah... so far we only know of 3 kids that he has... he loves to have sex... makes me pissed off.

Quoting Link:" yeah... so far we only know of 3 kids that he has... he loves to have sex... makes me pissed off. "

Yep castration!!! I can think of 2 people with multiple kids that need to be sterilized.