Absolutley FRIGHTENED....

Im a mother of two and i met this guy and we have managed to get pregnant and at first we agreed to have the baby and now some drama has entered our lives and now he has a change of heart and so do i kinda....im really scared ive never had this done and i am feeling all types of emotions...

I'm sorry you are going through this. Maybe sit down with a pros and cons list? Good luck to you.

Quoting PROUD_MOMMY_OF_TWO:" Im a mother of two and i met this guy and we have managed to get pregnant and at first we agreed to have ... [snip!] ... has a change of heart and so do i kinda....im really scared ive never had this done and i am feeling all types of emotions..."

How far along are you? Im too tired to do the math!

Im sorry. If you plan to go thru with abortion you will be fine. You have to think of your other kids and how the future will look like. Dont let anyone pressure you into doing anything that you dont want to do.

Also... Just THROWING THIS OUT HERE...

Do pro and cons for you and your options. I dont know if adoption is an option or not but GL.  

I'm sorry, i agree about sitting down and doing the pros and cons and just know that in the end you're doing what is best for your family and that's all that matters.

*Hugs* I'm sorry, hun.

I agree though, maybe sit down and make a list of the pros and cons and then decide which route is best for you.

Quoting ♡♡:" I'm sorry, i agree about sitting down and doing the pros and cons and just know that in the end you're doing what is best for your family and that's all that matters."

All of this PLUS

Whatever decision you choose, make sure it is YOURS and not any one elses. I got pressured into an abortion when I was 18. I do not regret really having it done...but I do regret the fact I walked in there with doubts and pressure and not confident.

Obviously I don't know the drama and such that has changed. But in reading your information you were very excited about being pregnant with a third baby.

Everyone makes a great point about listing the pros and cons.
My advice would be to make sure that the decision you make is because you feel that is best for you and your other two children. If you make a choice based on outside influences you may regret that decision.

Good luck.

Just because he had a change of heart doesnt mean you have to. Its your body and ultimatly your baby.. So what if he doesnt want anything to do with that beauitful child..thats his loss.

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Just because he had a change of heart doesnt mean you have to. Its your body and ultimatly your baby.. So what if he doesnt want anything to do with that beauitful child..thats his loss."

THIS!!!

Quoting busy mommy:" How far along are you? Im too tired to do the math! "

about two months 8 weeks

Quoting Amanda McCullough:"

Read the rules of AS please.