re: i hate it when BD buys things for my son

Quoting think pink:" That's terrible! I cannot stand parent's that make the older kids "help out" with the younger kids, he didn't give birth to them, they're your responsibility. "

this!


The next time I give birth, my son will help out a little bit like getting stuff if I ask him to but not ALL THE TIME.

Which baby daddy is this?
Do you suck this one dry like the other one?

Quit bitching...or better yet sell this toy like all your other kids stuff

Quoting Brink:" His kid too. My stepson wanted a guitar for Xmas which is what we got him. His mom wasnt thrilled but ... [snip!] ... it's what he wanted and he plays it all the time. If its that big of an issue send it back to his dads for him to play there."

this.

I would send it back.

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" You can limit his time with the items while he is with you. You can't blame him for spending money on him even though it's not what you want for him. At least he is around."

he doesn't care for him if all he wants to buy him is useless smurf. if he gave a smurf about his child's education he would buy him books to read, and educational things. just because he spends money on him doesn't make it a good thing.

Quoting Giselle Vixen ღ:" he doesn't care for him if all he wants to buy him is useless smurf. if he gave a smurf about his child's ... [snip!] ... he would buy him books to read, and educational things. just because he spends money on him doesn't make it a good thing."

then smurfing sell it.

I would either A. send it back or B. Sell it.

Quoting PeanutButter[WAL]:" Which baby daddy is this? Do you suck this one dry like the other one? Quit bitching...or better yet sell this toy like all your other kids stuff"

Am I missing a lot to this?

Quoting PeanutButter[WAL]:" Which baby daddy is this? Do you suck this one dry like the other one? Quit bitching...or better yet sell this toy like all your other kids stuff"

thinik I need to read her other posts.

Quoting *H3aTh3R*:" Put the things that are fun away until he brings his grades up. Use them as a reward only! Explain to ... [snip!] ... only! Explain to your BD the only thing he is doing is giving his son things you are going to take away until he earns them."

i've tried that, it's not working. the fact that he tried to hide it from me makes me even more upset.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" thinik I need to read her other posts. "</blockquote>




Same lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Giselle Vixen ღ:</b>" he doesn't care for him if all he wants to buy him is useless smurf. if he gave a smurf about his child's ... [snip!] ... he would buy him books to read, and educational things. just because he spends money on him doesn't make it a good thing."</blockquote>



How dare a father buy something FUN for his son... :/

Quoting Melissa ღ:" Am I missing a lot to this? "

Read her previous posts.

Quoting Giselle Vixen ღ:" i've tried that, it's not working. the fact that he tried to hide it from me makes me even more upset."

Well when your kids can't have smurf because you always sell it i'd hide it too.

nobody hides things from me in my house. the fact that he hid it means he knew he was doing something wrong.

Quoting Giselle Vixen ღ:" nobody hides things from me in my house. the fact that he hid it means he knew he was doing something wrong."

Or trying to make sure he was actually going to keep something that was gotten for him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡♡:</b>" Or trying to make sure he was actually going to keep something that was gotten for him."</blockquote>




 

Exactly he's a 10 yr old with a video game of course he wants to make sure he keeps a hOld of it