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I am angered.

MAybe once you move in, explain to them that you are grown ups (I'm just assuming you are here..) and you need your own space. Tell them that you are happy to stay until you've found some place to move and that you appreciate their generosity. I've lived with my il's fora little while with my husband and first child. They're great people, and had no real qualms concerning them.. nonetheless I was ready to pull my hair out within that first month. Whatever you do, do it for you, your bf. and your kiddo, and not because you're afraid of hurting your parents' feelings. My parents are the same way.

Quoting im_a_girl_nickel:“ MAybe once you move in, explain to them that you are grown ups (I'm just assuming you are here..) and ... [snip!] ... for you, your bf. and your kiddo, and not because you're afraid of hurting your parents' feelings. My parents are the same way.”

Yea, I'm going to try to talk to them. No matter what though if I disagree with them (mostly him) I'm just flat out wrong and my dad goes on about it too, which is what I really would like to avoid. My mom is easy to talk to but no matter what she always sides with my dad. I think we will do something like that though...ugh I just wish I didnt have to deal with them when it comes to things like this like seriously....I am annoyed. lol