Quoting A M B E R:" Well when people worry about judgement it's because of insecurities, that's how human behavior works. ... [snip!] ... she knew it was coming. But when I was pregnant I worried about people judging me a lot, I just proved them all wrong. "
I'm sorry but I fail to see how a teenager having two
kids, worrying about what other people may think has anything to do with insecurities.
She should've known from the first time she got pregnant. She was the one who made a stupid decision and got her self in that situation all over again.
Like I said, a teenager having a kid might have been a mistake having 2+ is being plain stupid so no I don't feel pity for them.
Your situation is understandable because you only have one kid so yes you may worry about what other people say. Every teen does. Then again, this is OP's friend 2nd child at 17