my boyfriend pushed me and my daughter.

We were having a very heated argument and he was trying to leave but I wasnt done explaining to him what I needed to say so as he was trying to leave the place I stood in front of the door to block his path. He pushed me out of the room and I almost fell. i was holding our daughter. The housekeeper at the hotel wanted to call the police but I told her not to. me and my daughter just checked out. i told my mom but she says Im making a big deal out of nothing... i'm not looking for anyone to tell me how abusive my boyfriend is, he really isn't. he was removing himself for a volatile situation because I was hitting him to make him listen to me. Im just agitated and frustrated and my mom is no help.

Quoting Lovely Cocaine™:" We were having a very heated argument and he was trying to leave but I wasnt done explaining to him what ... [snip!] ... a volatile situation because I was hitting him to make him listen to me. Im just agitated and frustrated and my mom is no help."

you shouldnt have been hitting him..

Well I hate to say it but you're more in the wrong than he is. You hit him, AND blocked his path. Both of which you can't do.

I'm not understanding what you wanna hear then

You hit him, and blocked a pissed off man from leaving the situation. He was more of an adult than you were.

So...you want us to tell you that youre abusive?

So.. the point of your post is to bitch about him, then say how great he is and how horrible you are?

Ooookay then.

<blockquote><b>Quoting L✌J:</b>" Well I hate to say it but you're more in the wrong than he is. You hit him, AND blocked his path. Both of which you can't do."</blockquote>




Exactllllllllly.
I could not have said this better.

Op, you seem to be very immature to be having your second child.

You should not have put your daughter in between the two of you when he was pissed and you should not have stood in his way when he was wanting to leave and if you were sitting there hitting him you really should not be bitching about a shove to get out of the house. If the situation was in reverse and your husband was being abusive toward you and you were trying to get out and you were not thinking and just wanted out I am willing to bet you would do the same thing.

Well I'm not going to call him abusive... Because you are. Smh

Quoting V's Mom! [TTC #2!]:" you shouldnt have been hitting him.."

not hitting like punching just if he wasn't paying attention to me then i'd swat him across the arm or turn his face toward mine so he could listen. Nothing drastic.

Bet you're regretting that tattoo now huh

You shouldn't have been hitting him. If the cops got called you would have been arrested for domestic violence, and possibly him as well for pushing you.

Quoting Lovely Cocaine™:" not hitting like punching just if he wasn't paying attention to me then i'd swat him across the arm or turn his face toward mine so he could listen. Nothing drastic."

You know what that's called?
ABUSE.

He did what most would have. And even tho your the woman, u shouldnt hit either!