re: What to do when the love is gone.

Quoting Baby♥Love:“ Awww congrats! I noticed you posted with the first topic I wrote about.. If you go to the last page ... [snip!] ... he has done to me.. Im just over it. Now hes saying he hopes he never sees our son, real nice for a 29 year old man to say!”

that is horrible of him to say that he doesn't want to see the baby. But just think of it in a positive way by thinking the way he acts and the crap he says the baby doesn't need that in his life and he may be better off without him. You will find another man some day and Im sure he will love your son. My 5 yr doesn't ever see her dad last was a year ago and he lives 10 minutes away. I hope you are doing well!

Quoting brianamarie21:“ that is horrible of him to say that he doesn't want to see the baby. But just think of it in a positive ... [snip!] ... love your son. My 5 yr doesn't ever see her dad last was a year ago and he lives 10 minutes away. I hope you are doing well!”

Yeah, its true. I just dont know what to do about my shower, we're remodling my house so its at his mothers and I guess she doesnt want me there so now im fucked...royally

I dont know what im going to do. My life seems like such shit right now, why cant I stay away from him. He doesnt deserve me, and he treats me so shitty and I KNOW ALL OF THIS. Im so miserable, I dont even know what to do. My shower is in 6 days... I wanna fucking run away.

Quoting Baby♥Love:“ Yeah, its true. I just dont know what to do about my shower, we're remodling my house so its at his mothers and I guess she doesnt want me there so now im fucked...royally”

Her mother is having a baby shower for you but she doesn't want you there? Sounds like their family is full of problems. How is the weather where you live? Could you have it outside at a park? I had mine at a conference room at a hotel and it worked out really good. Things will get better. You have a ton more horomones in you right now because you are pregnant which probably is not helping the situation. Just try to relax and take it easy!

Quoting brianamarie21:“ Her mother is having a baby shower for you but she doesn't want you there? Sounds like their family ... [snip!] ... in you right now because you are pregnant which probably is not helping the situation. Just try to relax and take it easy!”

Well my mother and my sister are throwing it, but his mother always does it at there house its a tradition for her I guess, but he lied and now I look lie the asshole, I kept telling him I'm going to call your mother and ask her, and he was saying she hated me saw everything I said to him and didnt want us there,and he kept saying call her she'll tell you what she thinks of you so I waited a couple hours calling him and calling him and I just started telling friends that is was at my house, he took a bunch of baby stuff he bought talked for five minutes and left*tonight*.. I can see thats all im worth to him 5 minutes, he cant just stick it out and talk with me.
He is just stressing me majorly.. Im living out of a laundry basket in my living room cause my room isnt finished,and now I have so much cleaning before saturday..I just hope I can get it done so I can have a nice relaxing day and be happy.

Quoting Baby♥Love:“ Awww congrats! I noticed you posted with the first topic I wrote about.. If you go to the last page ... [snip!] ... he has done to me.. Im just over it. Now hes saying he hopes he never sees our son, real nice for a 29 year old man to say!”

oh i am so sorry to hear that it did not work out. from the looks of things, you made the right decision. good luck hun and be strong for your son because you really dont want someone like that around YOUR son.