Quoting JayLA!!:" haha i guess ive been telling my story backwards.... hadnt really expected anyone to respond either..... a lot of things that i brushed off previously tend to irritate me nowdays.."
Go get counseling.
Losing a baby doesn't give you an excuse to be a raging bitch to every one. It sounds good in theory, and we'd all like to think it's a good reason, but it's not.
It's a smurffy thing that no one deserves to have happen to them. But that doesn't make the suffering of other mothers any less.
It does make them appear crass if they know that your baby died and they still try to tell you they know how you feel. Until you lose a child, you have no idea what losing a child feels like.