Quoting kim o. ❤:" Sooooo, some sad news. My app date for us to find out the gender has to go a little different as planned ... [snip!] ... try to figure it out ourselves. When its over, we are going to open the envelope! Its the only way we can find out together!!"
With my ultrasound with my last, DH couldn't be there, so our dr just recorded it. I looked away when they got to the figuring out gender part and that night we all sat down and watched the DVD. It worked for us
And it was a bit exciting to see the rest of the ultrasound all over again.