i have to rant because i have no body else to rant to lol

Ok first rant and tell me if im wrong. Ok my sister in law shes 26 does not have the best history with men, can stay faithful has 2 kids with 2 men fine ok whatever well she flew out to cali april5th to marrie her sons dad wh had just gotten out of jail and was in there for violation probation and attacking her. Anyways hours before the court wedding he says naww i dont wanna lol. tell me WHY did she get married to a DIFFERENT man yesterday? Shes known this man since feb of this year. he JUST turned 21 * shes 26* . i just dont understan. And when the judge was talking about being faithful and stuff i wanted to say YEAH you gotta be. ive known her 5 years and yet to see it. sound fricken crazy or what??
ok vent 2 and PLEASE im not tryen to offend ANYBODY so if you dont like what i say BUZZ OFF lol.
OK my sisters best friend is 16 pregnant due dec 3rd. It seems like everybody is SOOOOOOOOOOO excited about it. WTF  this child who is a young teen with no real life experiance who cant handle going to school and does home is haven a baby and there EXCITED? I would never say abortion i dont agree but by god shes to young to be excited at least that excited. This is what gets me. Her grama said she cant see the daddy anymore hes 19 because she got pregnant lol WTF aint it to late . This is the real getting this is the girls 3rd pregnancy. she lost the other 2 babys semi early on claimed to have gotten on bc . Im sorry but my daughter when she hits 13-14 years old and the first time she brings up a boy im maken her an apt to get on depo or iud. I do NOT trust young kids with the pill to easy to forget and to easy to claim you took it lie and get pregnant. My mom pull my sister off bc shes 17 claiming well shes nt in a relationship so ... MOM shes 17 never home she needs bc. I know for a fact my sister is screwing a set of twin guys , lyin to mom about where shes at when she goes out. Sorry had to vent i worrie sometimes about this worl my kids will be brought up in . I come from a striced family and it was the end of the workd when i got pregnant and was not married am now to the dad but also the end when non married couples live together . thanks for listing input is great am i being a bitch or do i have good reson to think this stuff???

intresting. I know how you feel and you do have a good reason to think this.

Maybe they figure the baby is already comming so they might as well get excited. My mom had the depo shot and it completely ruined her cycle. She got it for around 3 yearsand her periods are still not normal. She stopped taking it almost 2 years ago. I understand about your sil. I have crazy people in my family too! lol

I understand what you're saying about the 16-year-old being excited, but at the same time, she probably should get excited to ward off some possible depression. I'm 25 and just had my first baby, but I'm not with her dad, and my family is VERY religious, so me getting pregnant out of wedlock was like the end of the world. I was actually afraid to get excited for a while because I didn't know how my family would react, but finally, I said to myself, "Screw them...I'm having a baby!!"   Even after allowing myself to get excited, I still had a good deal of depression because of the situation.

So, I'd say let her get excited.  

You do have a good reason to think these things. I understand where your coming from with the 16 y.o, although I am 16 and preg. I was on BC and I tookthe pillfaithfully... I AM excited now because I've had time to let the fact sink in... there is no point in being upset about something that is already happend and I can't change. My mom was PISSED at me when I told her but she's slowly getting over it and yes getting excited... A baby is always an exciting thing no matter how you look at it. Some teen parents can do it, raise a baby and go to school and handle a part time job but sadly some can't and it just turns into a bad situation for the child. So I get why your upset over it, but maybe try to look at it from their point of view and don't judge her by her mistakes... just how she handles them.