Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Joslynn'sMommy:</b>" How old is he? If he can talk and understand ... [snip!] ... cat had kittens and he threw one against the wall because his brother wouldn't do something. I don't have animals anymore."
I think it might be time for some outside help. You have tried, and it seems like something is going on. Nothing you did, some kids just need a little extra help with different things. I am sorry mama, I really hope everything works out for you. Best wishes.