re: please....

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Does he get counseling of any sort? I would look into talking to a therpist and see what they think. ... [snip!] ... out. Try other ways maybe. I dont know, it just seems like he has a lot of emotions bottled up and he needs to let them out. "</blockquote>



He's been seeing a therapist for over two years now. He's been on multiple medications. Nothing freakin works.

Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Does he get counseling of any sort? I would ... [snip!] ... He's been seeing a therapist for over two years now. He's been on multiple medications. Nothing freakin works."

Thats tough mama, if you dont mind me asking.... is he diagnosed with anything?

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Thats tough mama, if you dont mind me asking.... is he diagnosed with anything?"</blockquote>




Adhd, ODD, anxiety, and the newest diagnoses is aspergers. I personally think they're just pulling smurf out their collective arses....because like me they don't know wtf is wrong with him.

Do they have youth psychiatric hospitals? If it was me, I'd have my kid locked away where he couldn't hurt himself or anybody else until the doctors figured out wtf was wrong with him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric hospitals? If it was me, I'd have my kid locked away where he couldn't hurt himself or anybody else until the doctors figured out wtf was wrong with him."</blockquote>




They do, and if it were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him.

Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric ... [snip!] ... were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him."

Why the smurf won't he consent? Just because he's a douchenozzle? Isn't he sick of his stuff getting ruined?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Why the smurf won't he consent? Just because he's a douchenozzle? Isn't he sick of his stuff getting ruined?"</blockquote>




Because he doesn't think that ashtian is as much of a problem as he actually is....and its all my fault because I can't control him.

Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Why the smurf won't he consent? ... [snip!] ... he doesn't think that ashtian is as much of a problem as he actually is....and its all my fault because I can't control him."

Mental illness is real. If he had cancer, would he deny him chemo? Tell him to get over himself so you can help your kid.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Mental illness is real. If he had cancer, would he deny him chemo? Tell him to get over himself so you can help your kid."</blockquote>




He doesn't think it is real. He makes me feel like smurf on a daily because I get depressed alot due to being unmedicated bipolar. He thinks that I should just get up and be better and not let smurf bother me so much. It doesn't help a god damned thing that I get absolutely zero help with the kids or the house. Is my house a holy smurfing wreck right now? You bet your ass it is...so much so that im ashamed of it. Am I going to get help with it? No....and that just adds to my depression because I am so completely overwhelmed. Im drowning and nobody is going to save me.

Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Mental illness is real. If ... [snip!] ... No....and that just adds to my depression because I am so completely overwhelmed. Im drowning and nobody is going to save me."

is it possible to have him bakeracted i know it sucks but if the hospital will bakeract him then tech he can't do anything.

<blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" Somethings going on with him. He old enough to ... [snip!] ... needs. He doesn't process things the way a normal child does. I've tried all of those things. I don't know what to do anymore."</blockquote>




Oh! Well that makes a difference. My brother is MR so I can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt.

Quoting Joslynn'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" ... [snip!] ... can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt."

U clearly didnt read there most likely just pulling smurf out there ass because they don't know what is wrong with him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 03751908485:</b>" U clearly didnt read there most likely just pulling smurf out there ass because they don't know what is wrong with him."</blockquote>




No, I just now was able to read it. I'm havong to use my phone so I don't get every single post right away. Sorry.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Joslynn'sMommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" ... [snip!] ... can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt."</blockquote>




He has been seeing therapists psychologists and psychiatrists for over two years now. Notice that all of those are plural. When one of them can't or wont give me an answer I take him elsewhere.

<blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric ... [snip!] ... were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him."</blockquote>


Ask his doctors to pink slip him, that way BD can't refuse.