Quoting NIC☮LE:" My mom is like that I did everything I could to have the abortion behind her back because even though ... [snip!] ... my baby. It hurt. But she's a mean person and I can't change that. I can just learn from it and not treat my daughter that way."
My mom is the same way - I told her i was pregnant and was going to have an abortion, and she was very supportive, took my daughter for a couple days so i could recover, made sure i had everything i needed and was comfortable, and a couple weeks after we got into an arguement and i was called a "baby killer" and a "murderer" . My mom suffers from severe depression and bi polar disorder, and she can say some awful things when she's mad, and then she acts like she never said them. It bugs me, and our relationship today STILL sucks because of her not being able to control what she says when she's angry.
I hate to see other people that have mothers similar to mine :/ because i know what kind of hurt it does to you. I've always just wanted to please my mom, and have her approval and love, but i've come to realize that she most likely won't ever change.