Quoting The Biscuit Farmer.:" You can't really try to talk someone out of the decision they've already made. It can come across as ... [snip!] ... you have to assume the OPs in AS have thought through all of their options and chosen the absolutely best one for them."
I wasn't and I am not against abortion in any way. I went with my best friend when she wanted hers. Did not try to talk her out of hers. I watched it destroy all three of them emotionally, and I was trying to as tactfully as I could encourage therapy after the abortion because of my personal experience with what it did to some people that I love. I apologize to OP if it came off that I was trying to talk her out of it, or that it was a bad decision or the wrong decision. All I was trying to say is to see a therapist BEFORE it becomes an issue as it did with those that I know. I truly am sorry if it came off any other way. Adoption is just an afterthought. I didn't realize that it would be taken as attempting to talk her out of it or that I was against the decision in general.
OP: Good luck, and I sincerely apologize if my comment was not written the way it was coming out in my head. Good luck. And as I said, from what I know, it's just a little uncomfortable, but not painful at all (in reference to the original question)