Quoting youngpregnantandhurt:" I don't want to but in this case I do in that I don't to ruin our relationship his future be a single ... [snip!] ... a single mom at 18 to twins... I just wish he would be different but I know he's just the way he is it'ss not going to change"
Look, if "ruinging" your relationship because you have a baby that you made TOGETHER is your concern, thats crazy. If something this hard can break your relationship.. something else will too. He should love and support YOUR decision. And if that means you are going to be a mom at 18.. so what? Plenty of people do it. I think Id understand more of the situation if you didnt seem soe eager to "please" HIM. He can walk away from it, you will have that empty feeling LONG after he is gone.