Post partum sex drive

I think something is seriously wrong with me i didntwant to have sex very often after aurora was born, now she is 11 months old i SERIOUSLY do NOT want to at ALL and when my husband trys it just pisses me off! anyone eles like that??

yes.. i'm like that.

Quoting Shawnelle:“ I think something is seriously wrong with me i didntwant to have sex very often after aurora was born, ... [snip!] ... she is 11 months old i SERIOUSLY do NOT want to at ALL and when my husband trys it just pisses me off! anyone eles like that??”

Well, I was a little like that after my son, but it took me only about 6 months to get back in the mood. There are mood enhancers that you could possibly take...they seel them at GNC. That may help but if you're breats feeding, I'd ask a doctor before trying them out.
It's really hard for me to force myself to want to do it when I do but a lot of times I kinda just push through it. I know how to get my hubby to be "quick" about it, lol.

Oh yeah I hate to have sex anymore and just b/c I got the IUD put in my husband thinks we can do it all the time... I think NOT!!

I think we loose our sex drive after we have kids because, we are consistantly soooo busy with the baby, working, and keeping up a household we rarely have time for sex and when we do you just dont have energy.


Sorry about the run on sentence lol.

Same here but my daughters only 5 weeks old...I'm dreading my 6 week check up and the doctor saying ' ok you can have sex now!!' Yeah...not feeling it.

Quoting NeeNeerz:“ Same here but my daughters only 5 weeks old...I'm dreading my 6 week check up and the doctor saying ' ok you can have sex now!!' Yeah...not feeling it.”

Tell your hubby your not 'healed' properly yet. teheh thats what i did with mitch. we didnt offically have sex until i was 9 wks pp.  

i just dont even care if we do it lol. its like when they told me i couldnt have sex i wanted to now that i can im like UGHH the thought of it just makes me instantly say " oh im so tired, or i have a headache" lol. and then we get into fights about it but im like why should i give in lol. i dont want to. 

My sex drive is just all over the place. Some weeks I want to have sex like bunnies and other weeks I cringe at the thought. Stupid hormones!

Sex causes crying babies!! Ahhhh! Not again!!!!

Quoting Fleur:“ My sex drive is just all over the place. Some weeks I want to have sex like bunnies and other weeks I cringe at the thought. Stupid hormones!”

I'm like that right now, being pregnant. Sometimes, I really, really want it but sometimes it's like ugghh. I am sooooo glad my husband is totally understanding about it.

Quoting Asher:“ I think we loose our sex drive after we have kids because, we are consistantly soooo busy with the baby, ... [snip!] ... up a household we rarely have time for sex and when we do you just dont have energy. Sorry about the run on sentence lol.”

Agreed!  

I think I can count on 2 hands the amount of times we've had sex since Maya was born and she's almost 8 months old. I have absolutely no interest at all, could care less if I never have sex again I feel like. I feel bad for my fiance.

My son is 3.5 months, and I still havent had sex, and REALLY have no interest.. thats what got me preggo =) lol.. I feel bad for hubby, but he understands that being mommy is draining... and altho once in awhile I get the urge, its gone in 2 mins.. lol. so i guess we will have sex when Im ready.. poor guy =)

Gage is months and I still don't want it!! I wish men would understand, Adam gets so pissed!