i need advice...help me plez??
posted 30th Apr
hell fellow members
i need major advice...
im only 15going on "16" in 2 months....
me and my boy friend have been dating for a year and a half{lovely}
my cycle hasn come for about two weeks now so i decided to take a home pregnancy test and .......
the results were that i was pregnant
ii dont have a clue how i should tell my mom....or ne one my boyfreiend is aware....he said hell just have to work oer time.......
can soeone please give me some type of advice
...thank you for even reading!!!.
quotei need major advice...
im only 15going on "16" in 2 months....
me and my boy friend have been dating for a year and a half{lovely}
my cycle hasn come for about two weeks now so i decided to take a home pregnancy test and .......
the results were that i was pregnant
ii dont have a clue how i should tell my mom....or ne one my boyfreiend is aware....he said hell just have to work oer time.......
can soeone please give me some type of advice
...thank you for even reading!!!.
I'm due January 12th & live in Louisiana
10914 postsposted 30th Apr
tell them straight up
You're already pregnant and nothing you can do about it
be responsible for your actions .
quoteYou're already pregnant and nothing you can do about it
be responsible for your actions .
I live in Texas
posted 30th Apr
ok ...thank you
to clear it up
i didnt say that i didnt want to teall her i said i need advice on how
quoteto clear it up
i didnt say that i didnt want to teall her i said i need advice on how
I'm due January 12th & live in Louisiana
676 postsposted 30th Apr
I agree with Liz, you should just tell them. At first I wasn't going to tell my mom or his mom or him, but I did because I realized they should be there to support you.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Whiteville, North Carolina
posted 30th Apr
Oh in that case, just tell whomever you need to talk to them and if you must soften them up with the everyone make mistakes and then just spit it out and tell them what you plan to do about it.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Whiteville, North Carolina
4798 postsposted 30th Apr
Just sit them down and tell them. Stalling and waiting only makes things more stressful. Good luck. And I hope all goes well.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Texas
6601 postsposted 30th Apr
I was really nervous about it too. I told my sisters first (i have 3) and they were with me when I told my mom. and then all of us were together when I told my dad so it made it a little easier. It was still pretty hard you just have to let it out and see what happens. im sure if they love and care about you, they'll be there for you. Mine are really supportive now and are almost as excited as i am. it's their first grandbaby!!
quoteI have 1 child & live in Saskatchewan
2722 postsposted 30th Apr
Just sit them down and tell them. Have your bf there with youto show them that he knows it is his responsibility/choice too.
They may be angry and disappointed at first, but that will only be because they have high expectations for you and this may not have been the path they wanted you to take.
Its not going to be an easy road for but you have chosen to have a mature relationship and hopefully they will see when you prove to them that you are mature enough to face them and the consequences of your actions.
I think its important for the two of you to be there together, after all it does take two, and if there is judgement to face, you need to do it together.
This is a life long choice you have made and I hope you can accept that your mum and dad may be angry but thats because they love you...
Good luck, Keep us posted.
quoteThey may be angry and disappointed at first, but that will only be because they have high expectations for you and this may not have been the path they wanted you to take.
Its not going to be an easy road for but you have chosen to have a mature relationship and hopefully they will see when you prove to them that you are mature enough to face them and the consequences of your actions.
I think its important for the two of you to be there together, after all it does take two, and if there is judgement to face, you need to do it together.
This is a life long choice you have made and I hope you can accept that your mum and dad may be angry but thats because they love you...
Good luck, Keep us posted.
I have 2 kids & live in Melbourne, Australia
1297 postsposted 30th Apr
Just tell them, there's no sense in beating around the bush. Also, check out the teen pregnancy forum, there's a sticky on ways to tell your parents! Good luck!
quoteI'm TTC since November '08, have 1 child & live in Collingswood, New Jersey
443 postsposted 30th Apr
Did you learn NOTHING in sex ed?... srsly... how old is your BF i would be more concerned about that BEFORE you tell your parents. a year and a half,,,
Wow so you where technically... like 13?... legally in the US you cannot give permission to have sexual relations under the age of 16 Sooo he could be in trouble. regardless of his age as well.
quoteWow so you where technically... like 13?... legally in the US you cannot give permission to have sexual relations under the age of 16 Sooo he could be in trouble. regardless of his age as well.
I have 4 kids & live in California
posted 30th Apr
Quoting Irishrainwater:“ Did you learn NOTHING in sex ed?... srsly... how old is your BF i would be more concerned about that ... [snip!] ... cannot give permission to have sexual relations under the age of 16 Sooo he could be in trouble. regardless of his age as well.”
how do you even know they were having sex that early??
I have 1 child & live in Saskatchewan
posted 30th Apr
Quoting Bianca F:“ I agree with Liz, you should just tell them. At first I wasn't going to tell my mom or his mom or him, but I did because I realized they should be there to support you.”
Yeah , plus you might as well get it over with , no ?
it's not like the later you wait to tell them the less pist off they will be at you .
i told my parents at 8 weeks for my first pregnancy .
and at 4 weeks for this pregnacy .
and i'm 16 so if i can do it , so can you guys
I live in Texas
8691 postsposted 30th Apr
Quoting Irishrainwater:“ Did you learn NOTHING in sex ed?... srsly... how old is your BF i would be more concerned about that ... [snip!] ... cannot give permission to have sexual relations under the age of 16 Sooo he could be in trouble. regardless of his age as well.”
How come you can't just be helpful? She asked for advice, the deed is done, there's no point in trying to put her down!
I'm TTC since November '08, have 1 child & live in Collingswood, New Jersey
11631 postsposted 30th Apr
Quoting Irishrainwater:“ Did you learn NOTHING in sex ed?... srsly... how old is your BF i would be more concerned about that ... [snip!] ... cannot give permission to have sexual relations under the age of 16 Sooo he could be in trouble. regardless of his age as well.”
Didn't you learn anything at all in school? You sound so fucking stupid.
I have 1 child & live in Jacksonville, North Carolina
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