Wow its crazy how these "men" hear pregnant and automatically suggest abortion like it's their choice.
I'm in a similar situation dear. It was depressing at first because I had so much support from him and his family with our first child, and now I don't for this pregnancy. It gets lonely..not having a SO to be a excited about the baby with, talk baby names, or to feel the baby kick. But at the same time I'd rather be alone and relaxed then try to take care of another kid basically. At least that's how it felt for me. I don't need the stress, especially when pregnant.
I went through my pregnancy alone..I broke up with bd two weeks before I found out and had no intentions of getting back with him although i did want him involved with the baby. when I told him I was pregnant he said "You gotta be smurffing me" he is married, they had been separated for about 5-6 months when we got together. of course when we broke up he got back with her and they have broken up and gotten back together lots of times since then. When he wasn't with her, he wanted our son, when he was with her, it wasnt his baby and she wanted to fight me constantly. she was pregnant too, a couple of weeks behind me...they are still together and he is raising her son and will have nothing to do with his own flesh and blood.. my son is now 3 months old and bd has seen him once, at 4 weeks old. He never contacts me, and anytime I talk to him it ends up in a fight so I give up...Like I told him, i'm not the one missing out.
with my oldest daughter her father has only seen her once because of choices he made before we got together after being single for a little over 3 years after that i met the father of my baby girl (im 23 weeks pregnant) and when he found out i was pregnant the only thing he could think of was that i had to have a abortion that i wouldnt do because thats just not who i am he moved away when we do talk he will not say anything about the baby he said he doesnt want anything to do with her but im over it my daughters are my world and they have so many people who love them so much