Quoting MamaJes100712:" I have the same issues with my SO, I realize he works hard to provide for us so I can stay home and watch ... [snip!] ... from 6-7 days a week, 12 hours a day, but there comes a point where enough is enough. I am his SO NOT his mother or maid!"
That's sort of where I am at. I am so grateful that he works as hard as he does for us, and I guess that's why I was worried I might be expecting too much or that I am just hormonal. SO does cook, more so than I do because he really enjoys cooking plus he is a better cook than I am haha, but it's the same thing... if he cooks I clean, if I cook I clean.