I can't stand you..

that's what DH said to me last night when I got annoyed with him because he wasn't trying to put DS back to sleep at 3am, DH just rolled over and assumed I'd get him. We alternate nights, and usually on my night I sleep in a different room with DS because DH gets all pissy. DH is NEVER home, he goes to work and then to the gym every night for 2/3 hours. His anger is just out of control, and we have had these problems our entire relationship (six years)

Part of me just knows we aren't going to last..

Oh, I used to get that every night. So glad I don't put up with it anymore.  

Quoting ♥mamabear +2:" Oh, I used to get that every night. So glad I don't put up with it anymore.  "

I don't know what else he wants from me. We split when DD was 4 months old, and it took us a while to get back together. I'm sure it will get worse once I start working again... We only get along when I'm pregnant. lol

All I can think of is to go to some sort of counseling. I think it would benefit to have a 3rd party listen and give advice.

Quoting maegenn ♥ +2:" I don't know what else he wants from me. We split when DD was 4 months old, and it took us a while ... [snip!] ... a while to get back together. I'm sure it will get worse once I start working again... We only get along when I'm pregnant. lol"

No good!   Have you tried counseling?

No we haven't. I am going to try and sit down with him tonight and see if that is something that he would want to do.. I'd really like to fix what seems so unfixable, but I won't be miserable forever so something needs to happen.

Quoting maegenn ♥ +2:" No we haven't. I am going to try and sit down with him tonight and see if that is something that he would ... [snip!] ... want to do.. I'd really like to fix what seems so unfixable, but I won't be miserable forever so something needs to happen."

If he won't go for it at least you know you gave it your all. I don't think anyone would fault you for wanting to be happy. I would rather be alone than unhappy.

All men do this. My husbands excuse is "I sleep to hard but I will try". So what I do listen out but when she wakes up I very lightly back hand him across the stomach and very sweetly tell him to get his ass up and get which ever kid cries on his turn.   He used that whole "but I have to work tomorrow" excuse. I finally just told him that even though I'm a SAHM I work tomorrow to. I worked 24 hours today and I will pull another 24 hours tomorrow, and the day after and the day after.... He can do it to. It what we signed up for when we had kids. If he doesn't like it then tough I didn't get myself pregnant.   I know that I sound like a bitch when I say this but for the first year of our oldest kids life he used the "I work" excuse and he only had a part time job and I was at the house all day with a severely colicky kid that had really bad reflux. I told him that I need a break to.At least he has the time that he drives back and forth to work... I even have to leave the bathroom door open when I go to the bathroom. So yea.... those excuses flew out the window quick with me... lol  

Quoting Livin Dead Girl:" All men do this. My husbands excuse is "I sleep to hard but I will try". So what I do listen out but ... [snip!] ... to leave the bathroom door open when I go to the bathroom. So yea.... those excuses flew out the window quick with me... lol  "

That's what I told him.. Just because I don't have to get up and leave the house for work.. doesn't mean I don't work everyday. Smurf I wish I had to drive to work lol I said something a little while ago when he called me, and he made it seem like it wasn't a big deal. Who knows..

Quoting maegenn ♥ +2:" That's what I told him.. Just because I don't have to get up and leave the house for work.. doesn't ... [snip!] ... to work lol I said something a little while ago when he called me, and he made it seem like it wasn't a big deal. Who knows.."

Men... Can't live with 'em, can't live with out them! Well I guess you can live with out them but damn.... sometimes they just make you want to smack them over the head and tell them that they suck balls...