Quoting Country Babe ; * (::" I'm almost 16 years old, in July. & lately i've been wanting a baby. I am sexually active and had ... [snip!] ... both of my new born nephews, One is almost 5 months old and the other is 3 weeks old and it seems really easy to be a parent."
Excuse me.. im 17, almost 18.. Im 5 weeks pregnant. And it was not planned.. while i wouldnt dream of ever getting rid of this baby. looking at this post makes me sick.. like are you serious? i KNOW i'm not ready, although it does not matter, being an adult you need to be mature enough in your own mind.. that right there tells me otherwise, although i should not be one to talk, you need to grow up fast lady.. i'm not even a physical mother yet and i'm already tired from all the concerns and symptoms., you may think its easy now. but once you see that + sign.. its a whole different story.. i think you need to wait as long as possible, Until your married, and actually not bullsmurffing about being set with money..It would be your baby, the one you need to change, feed. wake up in the middle of the night to hold. its a HUDGE deal, and you are making it look so easy for yourself, while i'm scared to death.. you have fun putting yourself in my, and many other teen mothers shoes. although being a mother isnt the worst thing in the world, im not saying NEVER get pregnant, but it would be helpful if you actually got pregnant,
1. At a reasonable age
2. When you're mature enough
3. When you know you can support it
4. When you get a brain..
If your women enough to lay in bed with a man, you better know your women enough to be able to take care of a baby.