Quoting Country Babe ; * (::" I'm almost 16 years old, in July. & lately i've been wanting a baby. I am sexually active and had ... [snip!] ... both of my new born nephews, One is almost 5 months old and the other is 3 weeks old and it seems really easy to be a parent."
No. It is not easy. You take care of them and then give them back. You are obviously not ready if you think it will be easy. Not mature enough and how is a fifteen year old ready for a baby. You don't have the money, you don't have the high school degree or the college degree to get a good enough job to support a baby without someone else's help. Your living in a dream world if you think that it is easy. You still have to go to school, finish high school and college, well taking care of a baby who needs your attention 24/7, and getting up every two to three hours in the night to feed and take care of the crying baby and having to still get up in the morning for school. You are not ready at all! Think about school, and your life before trying to conceive another life and bringing into your life before your ready. I wish I would have waited but now I am pregnant at sixteen, and I know I am not ready and I know that I don't have the money to support a baby on my own, and I am def. not mature enough to do it on my own. My babies father is a drug-addict, and a dead beat who wants nothing to do with me or his child. And I don't want a drug addict around my baby. And having a baby, won't make the daddy stay either, and at fifteen your baby daddy more than likely wouldn't stay . Your not ready and no guy your age is ready. Just wait intill after you have gone to high school and college, and wait intill you have the means to support and take care of a baby on your own, to decide to have kids, just wait. Don't even have sex. Pregnancy and children is nothing to joke around about, and if your having sex get on birth control and use a condom. Because that is just irresponsible to not have safe sex. And that also shows that you are not ready nor mature enough to have a baby, if you can not make a smart decision as to have safe sex. Because once you become pregnant and have a child, you are the one to make the big decisions not your mom, not your dad, you. You have to take care of the baby, you have to sign papers, take the baby to doctors appointments, etc. Your not ready.