re: I'm 15 years old and want to have a baby.

and if no one hired him? then what .
lets say u had a girl and she got pregnant and no one hired her and she had no money.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shaanon':</b>" and if no one hired him? then what . lets say u had a girl and she got pregnant and no one hired her and she had no money."</blockquote>




I'm sorry but my daughters child is not my responsibility...
I wasn't the one who chose to have unprotected sex. She did. If you want to have a baby you have to accept adult responsibilities. Having a baby is an adult decision.

haha okay...
teenagers have kids in this world someof us take care of our kids better then some adults would. we also get a baby bonus thats boosts us to help our kids. iknow plenty of teenage mothers who had nothing when they found out they were pregnant and got everything they needed and there ids are extremly hapy and healthy. not gonna sit here and talk for tohers but im doing perfectly fine with having a baby at 15

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shaanon':</b>" haha okay... teenagers have kids in this world someof us take care of our kids better then some adults ... [snip!] ... ids are extremly hapy and healthy. not gonna sit here and talk for tohers but im doing perfectly fine with having a baby at 15"</blockquote>




Apparently not if you're still living at home with no job and no way to support yourself.

Lol looking after somebody elses child are having your own is totally different, parenting is not easy at all, think of how you gonna support the childs needs & financially :, your nearly 16 just think  

You're super smart lol. That's everyones dream in life. To spit out some babies and have their parenta support them. My god, what happened to girls who had higher aspirations for themselves than having babies.? Teen mom and 16 and pregnant have obviously smurfed up teen girls now...

gosh ok im 15 and preg and i can tell you personally it is the hardest and scarryst smurf i have ever been through and my baby isn't even born yet you cant just have your parents take care of your baby and you cant just drop outta school or u and your baby have no future that u have provided i can promise you its not easy ya maybe looking at other moms they make it seem easy but its not u have a screaming demanding baby 24/7 who wakes up every hour ta 2 hours in the night so u cant sleep then u gotta get a job dipars are not cheap 150 dipars is like 25 to 30 dollars your gonna be spending like 100 to 150 on just dipars alone please please please just wait have you not seen 16 and pregnant they struggle every day please just wait

Ok, so I have only read some of these & I can tell you it is not easy!! & anyone telling this girl that it is easy has some seriouse problems!! No, it's not the end of the world for a teen to get pregnant, but there is sooooo much more to it than what you could ever imagine!! I got pregnant when I was 16 years old & taking care of her was the hardest thing I ever had to do!! You miss out on half your life!! No friends, no going out, nothing but setting home taking care of a baby!! I am now almost 26, married & have 3 girls & a little boy on the way!! I was lucky enough to find a great man who loved my 2 girls like they was his own! Because if you think a 15 or 16 year old boy is going to hang around, you are saddly mistaken!! It's not worth having a baby right now!! Finish high school, finish college, find a great job & get married!! THEN start planning a family!! Trust me, if you don't, you will wish you did!!

I met this girl online, she's 14 and she just found out she's pregnant. Maybe you should try talking to her and get her opinion of it, since she's close to your age and actually is pregnant. the only way i know to contact her is http://proudbabymomma14.tumblr.com/ sorry, i hope this helps

my mother had my older sister at 14 n from what she has told me she went threw hell trying to support her. n my dadid stay n help n it was still hard as hell. they were living off my grandmother bc they couldnt afford her needs by themselves. her n my aunt would go back n forth n skip school bc she had no babysitter, while my father worked all day at 16, n still didnt make enough. (he worked at a pizza place) so it just shows weither ur baby daddy stays or not its hard my mother had to drop out after a year of this just bc she needed more money to support her baby. can u honestly say u want that for urself n ur child? is that the kind of life u want to live? to b broke all the time n having other ppl support ur kid, but yet u STIL have to drop out bc its not enough? thats just one situation that could happen

It's cool that you think your ready girl.
I'm 15 and I know I'm not ready. I'm 20 weeks pregnant and scared out of my mind. I still live with my mom and I feel like such a burden on her because she now has to help me with my own baby even though she has done her time, she had four kids and raised them well.. she thought she was done but now because of my decisions she has to help practically raise another life. I mean I'm really excited to meet my baby girl but I know that I'm not ready. Don't get me wrong I'm excited but I know how hard its going to be, Babies are a lot more money than you think and its hard to get ahold of that kind of money when your only 15. Trust me I know. I'm 15 and pregnant.
But I already love my baby girl no matter how untimely this is. <3

Quoting Country Babe ; * (::" My dad passed away 9 months ago and me and my mother both have his death benefit money, and I have a ... [snip!] ... money, and I have a job and live with my mom, grandmother, and grandfather. My mom gets money every month for her disablity."

so you are going to live off of your fathers death benefit. Does your mother even know. I'm 18 married living on my own off 1 income this is not a game sweetheart it's hard work just to be pregnant! Let alone to actually hold that child and provide for it every single day for the rest of your life. I support teen pregnancy when it isn't planned the mother and father are both around and they have both finished highschool and truly care enough for eachother to give this child the parents and life it needs. YOU NEED TO WAKE UP MISSY. You need to grow up a lot more before you get yourself pregnant. Your father would be rolling in his grave if he knew you would use his death money for a child. You don't have a stable relationship a stable career and you plan on living off your parents. THAT SURE DOES SHOW HOW ADULT LIKE YOU ARE!!!

When I found out I was pregnant I was 17 living with my abusive father I was not married and my boyfriend and I were only together for a few months. I was still in high school with a little income and no license. When my father found out he kicked me out he tried with all his might to make me abort my child and refused to give me the care I needed (I got pregnant not him, I was my own respectability) he kicked me out of the house and I moved in with my mother who wanted nothing to do with me. I and Dylan (the father) got married (we were engaged before I was pregnant) and moved into an income based housing resident, we live off an income of 20,000 a year. No help from my side of the family I was shunned and we struggle everyday. Do you really want to make your life a living hell? I sit at home all day because my body hasnt done well with the pregnancy. I never see Dylan because he works all the time. I don't get to see my friends what little I have left. The only way they stay around is if you have a stupid MTV camera following you around everywhere. Look at all those mothers living off of their parents and not taking the responsibility they needed to. They are such winners...NOT. you'd be selfish to bring a child into this world that you couldn't provide for on your own. they would never have the parenting they needed.

Quoting Shaanon':" haha okay... teenagers have kids in this world someof us take care of our kids better then some adults ... [snip!] ... ids are extremly hapy and healthy. not gonna sit here and talk for tohers but im doing perfectly fine with having a baby at 15"

A baby bonus? Are you smurfing kidding me? I'm going to be sick.

Quoting Country Babe ; * (::" I'm almost 16 years old, in July. & lately i've been wanting a baby. I am sexually active and had ... [snip!] ... both of my new born nephews, One is almost 5 months old and the other is 3 weeks old and it seems really easy to be a parent."

If you think parenthood is easy your not ready