re: I'm 15 years old and want to have a baby.

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" My dad passed away 9 months ago and me and my mother both have his death benefit money, and I have a ... [snip!] ... money, and I have a job and live with my mom, grandmother, and grandfather. My mom gets money every month for her disablity."

Your mother should not have to fork up money for the child you decide to have. It is your child, not your mothers.

Baby sitting someone else's child is one thing, but your own is a while other story...Where would you live, how would you finish school and further to better yourself?? How can you financially provide for a baby? They arent cheap by any means

I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks.

Quoting ♥ßlondetourage:" smurrrrrf i remember being married for 4 years with my husband being a SSG in the army and us STILL asking ... [snip!] ... help us buy stuff for the baby lol...even though he made a lot of money. Sheesh. I wonder what she does for a living   "

We bought every last thing ourselves. Didn't ask anyone for a thing. We got a few gifts but not much. I'm pretty proud of the fact we did it alone. No one can say we didn't provide for our kid ourselves. Not that family helping is bad but I hate people who think people should buy their kid's stuff for them.

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."

 
THAT'S what caught your attention and changed your mind about this?
 

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."

yes your life becomes about your baby...You're still a child yourself. Enjoy you teenage years and wait. =) Finish school better yourself for your future children.

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."

 

Clearly shows that you haven't thought about everything properly, and shows you really are too young & not ready at all.

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."

Good thinking   Waiting is the best thing to do at your age.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LoveMuffin♥:</b>"   THAT'S what caught your attention and changed your mind about this?  "</blockquote>



Lol right!

Children are soo expensive hey i mean me and my husband work
and it was still hard even now its hard work having a child joyfull but hard and i think to hard for 15 i think in your currency we spent $100 000 before the baby was born just for basic things you know ... i think you should enjoy life the young fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daphne Westcott:</b>" Children are soo expensive hey i mean me and my husband work and it was still hard even now its hard ... [snip!] ... born just for basic things you know ... i think you should enjoy life the young fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart"</blockquote>




You spent one hundred thousand dollars on baby items!?

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Daphne Westcott:</b>" Children are soo expensive hey i mean ... [snip!] ... fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart"</blockquote> You spent one hundred thousand dollars on baby items!?"

yes it sounds like alot in your currency but here that the same as what $4000 would be to you lol but i know it sounds like a lot

No, you don't and no, you aren't.

Quoting MomToFlump:" Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing ... [snip!] ... Clearly shows that you haven't thought about everything properly, and shows you really are too young & not ready at all."

Yes, this!

............... ugh