Quoting Wanted: #2:" How does DH feel about that?"
He says he doesn't want this to stop us from becoming parents, he wants to be a father even if it won't be biologically his, he will still be daddy.
I just have hesitations with that because we see things so differently. I'd love to be open and honest, but he'd rather not go there, thinks it's better left unsaid and would rather our child(ren) know only him as dad. I can understand where he's coming from, but I still don't think it's fair that our immediate family knows (like just moms and dads) but our child is left in the dark.... Then the other side of me thinks, this whole thing is his "issue", having a zero sperm count, and I feel like he should have a higher say.
So torn. but our RE's office requires 2 sessions of counseling before going the donor route.