re: *OFFICIAL* Fertility Treatment Thread (Clomid, IVF, IUI)

<blockquote><b>Quoting nurselindsey:</b>" That's what I thought... and then the 2ww came. It sucks!"</blockquote>



Oh I know lol it will be torture. Just like all those other 2ww's we have been through lol

My husband last night was like, "you're not pregnant. You've thought you were before and you weren't..." I was like THERE WAS NO SPERM ANY OF THOES TIMES!
I think he was mad...

<blockquote><b>Quoting nurselindsey:</b>" My husband last night was like, "you're not pregnant. You've thought you were before and you weren't..." I was like THERE WAS NO SPERM ANY OF THOES TIMES! I think he was mad..."</blockquote>



Hahahaha!!! That's great. Sounds like me and my husband lol

Quoting *Mrs. M.*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amelia Margaret:</b>" How awful. I'm so, so sorry.   I lost ... [snip!] ... baby's labs will be back by then. How did they diagnose your cervix? I just went to my 15 week Appt and baby had no heartbeat."

I went into the pregnancy knowing I was high risk because of past procedures on my cervix and then the way I lost Hope was pretty textbook for IC. I went to the ER right after my water broke and they sent me home to miscarry, then ended up in an ambulance later that night.  

Hope you get some answers with the pathology.

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting nurselindsey:</b>" My husband last night was like, "you're not ... [snip!] ... ANY OF THOES TIMES! I think he was mad..."</blockquote> Hahahaha!!! That's great. Sounds like me and my husband lol"

OMG I wanted to kick him.
After I got my BFN today he was like, do you feel like your period is coming. I said no. He asks how can I tell?! Well 12 times a year for 14 years and you'd think I know.

Another pregnancy announcement on fb... And it's my cousin. Didnt even know she was with someone. Blah! Happy for her though, I know my time is coming soon!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" Another pregnancy announcement on fb... And it's my cousin. Didnt even know she was with someone. Blah! Happy for her though, I know my time is coming soon!"</blockquote>




Yea I have 15 friends on FB that are pregnant right now and like 5 that had their babies in the last 2 months. I'm happy for them but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't sad too...

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" Another pregnancy announcement on fb... And ... [snip!] ... now and like 5 that had their babies in the last 2 months. I'm happy for them but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't sad too..."</blockquote>




Exactly. It's just hard to see!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" ... [snip!] ... I'm happy for them but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't sad too..."</blockquote> Exactly. It's just hard to see!"</blockquote>




It is.  


A friend actually just had her son today. 10 lbs. 14 oz.! It was her first too...

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" ... [snip!] ... to see!"</blockquote> It is.   A friend actually just had her son today. 10 lbs. 14 oz.! It was her first too..."</blockquote>



Big baby!! That was how much my nephew weighed but my SIL had a c-section.

2 friends had their showers today too. I didn't go. I wanted to but didn't if that makes sense. Idk. Just makes me sad.

My aunt keeps saying I should be happy I have 3 kids. I AM! Idk why people say that. It doesn't negate what I'm going through now. It wasn't like they were easy to get pregnant with too. And I've had losses as well.

Ahh. Sorry, just venting a little. I'm getting frustrated. Still spotting JUST a smudge here and there. No real blood. I don't get it. Anyone know what it could mean if the provera doesn't work (like last time)?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr.Clandestine:</b>" Not bashing anyone for this, but it irks ... [snip!] ... why are you bringing a kid into that?"</blockquote> It's really no one's business. This thread isn't for that."</blockquote>


If you go back through the pages most of us have posted personal gripes about threads in general in an adult way. It breaks up a lot of the heart aching waiting that a lot of us have to do.

Sorry if I offended, but I do have right to post what I want.

ETA thoughts, muscle relaxer is kicking my ass.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr.Clandestine:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr.Clandestine:</b>" ... [snip!] ... us have to do. Sorry if I offended, but I do have right to post what I want. ETA thoughts, muscle relaxer is kicking my ass."</blockquote>




Didn't say you didn't. But most in here are already stressed, no reason to add to it, kwim? That's what d&d is for. I know I joined for support. I'm sure others did the same and it would feel horrible to be treated as less than in here.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" 2 friends had their showers today too. I didn't go. I wanted to but didn't if that makes sense. Idk. ... [snip!] ... here and there. No real blood. I don't get it. Anyone know what it could mean if the provera doesn't work (like last time)?"</blockquote>




It means you don't have enough lining to shed or you took 1 pill for 10 days and it will take your body almost forever to start a decent withdrawal bleed. In my experience you would either go on the pill or mini pill and have a pill period. If a withdrawal bleed doesn't start in 14 days from your last pill you need to go in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr.Clandestine:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" 2 friends had their showers today too. ... [snip!] ... pill or mini pill and have a pill period. If a withdrawal bleed doesn't start in 14 days from your last pill you need to go in."</blockquote>




Thanks.
It's been almost 9 days since the last pill. The mini pill makes me bleed the whole month. Is that normal?? I have a follow up on Wednesday.