Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" That's why I vented in here, I ... [snip!] ... pregnant left and right when they were younger. Unless you have sent through it yourself, you have no right to talk about it"
When we saw our RE for the first time we knew after DH's S/A that we'd have to do IUI. I was a little upset at first but I thought "okay with IUI it's a sure thing that we'll get pregnant". Now after a failed IUI and knowing DH's S/A results I'm pessimistic. I feel like it won't happen, since we were advised that IVF is probably the best route for us; I just feel like it won't happen. ALL of my friends are getting pregnant right now. Today two people in my FB infertility group posted their BFPs.
I hate when people tell me, "well, God probably just wants you adopt." or "God just wants you to have only one child." Just because I'm infertile doesn't mean I have to adopt. Why can't fertile people go adopt children in need of a home? Why are these people speaking for God? I could get started on a long rant here.