re: *OFFICIAL* Fertility Treatment Thread (Clomid, IVF, IUI)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Would that mean you could start IVF next month?"</blockquote>


If his surgery is on October, I could start my bcp like next week or week after 

I hope everyone gets what they want so bad!!
I am really excited went to the bathroom just now and I have thick egg white discharge- could it be possible to have this since I just had my insemination yesterday?

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Would that mean you could start IVF next ... [snip!] ... start IVF next month?"</blockquote> If his surgery is on October, I could start my bcp like next week or week after "

Exciting!! Hopefully we'll end up being due date buddies!  

Quoting Uh-milly'Yuh:" Yep. I've always been able to see the HB at six weeks."

 
At 6 weeks we got to see my daughter's HB.

Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" And another quick vent.. I really ... [snip!] ... to about this. Nobody cares.. "</blockquote> Hey girl I can be there for ya- I know how frustrating it can be for this"

That's why I vented in here, I know you all would understand and I'd get support from all of you  

I tried to talk to my mom about the fertility stuff but she has no idea how any of this works, nor does she want to know.

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" Everybody around me is getting pregnant. ... [snip!] ... deserve to be parents. It's a long road but we are all in this together! I will always be here for you and the other girls !"

I feel bad sometimes for complain about the infertility because I'm very blessed to have my daughter. I'm an only child and I hate it, I don't want the same for LO. Whenever we're around other kids she wants to be motherly with them. I keep wondering, "What if we can't have another child? What if Dahlia gets upset with me because of it".

Yesterday I wanted to sell all the baby clothes I have but today I'm having second thoughts. When I was TTC my daughter I was extremely optimistic, I didn't really let the infertility get to me. This time around it's making me an emotional wreck :\

Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:" Exciting!! Hopefully we'll end up being due date buddies!  "

  That would be awesome!!! I hope so!  

Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:" I feel bad sometimes for complain about the infertility because I'm very blessed to have my daughter. ... [snip!] ... was extremely optimistic, I didn't really let the infertility get to me. This time around it's making me an emotional wreck :\ "

Don't feel bad about complaining! Infertility affects us all the same, regardless of if you have a child already.

I really hope we all get BFP soon.
I'm sick of feeling depressed and letting infertility rule my life! I've been an emotional wreck as well.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" That's why I vented in here, I know you all would understand and I'd get support from all of you   ... [snip!] ...   I tried to talk to my mom about the fertility stuff but she has no idea how any of this works, nor does she want to know."</blockquote>




I think the madness gets worse especially when you start having iui's. At least for me it has. You keep thinking well I'm sure it will work since the dr is doing it, but sometimes it doesn't. I understand that you have no support, although I have mixed support. I feel like I'm been put in a pedestal to have another child. My mom went with me to my iui and she was so excited and nervous. Now im just praying it took!!! Then I have other family and friends that say it will happen in gods time and that's just something I want to hear. O and my all time favorite, maybe you were meant to only have one child. Gosh that just makes be feel better   I really don't think they will ever get it because they all got pregnant left and right when they were younger. Unless you have sent through it yourself, you have no right to talk about it

Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:"O and my all time favorite, maybe you were meant to only have one child."

That is seriously the most horrible thing to say to an infertile. It's like saying crack whores and child abusers are more meant to have more than one child than you. It makes me angry just hearing your story. All riled up now lol. I'm sorry. My own mother who is so supportive and loving says hurtful things when she's trying to be helpful. Fertiles just have no idea.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uh-milly'Yuh:</b>" That is seriously the most horrible thing to say to an infertile. It's like saying crack whores and ... [snip!] ... own mother who is so supportive and loving says hurtful things when she's trying to be helpful. Fertiles just have no idea.  "</blockquote>



Seriously! People who aren't affected have no idea. My SIL asked me the other day if I was okay and I said I was nervous and worried for DHs surgery and she's like why, it's not major surgery... ... Wow really?!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uh-milly'Yuh:</b>" That is seriously the most horrible thing to say to an infertile. It's like saying crack whores and ... [snip!] ... own mother who is so supportive and loving says hurtful things when she's trying to be helpful. Fertiles just have no idea.  "</blockquote>




I know!! I deal with children everyday at work and fi interviews with then to see if they were abused of not. It breaks my heart everytime I find out that someone could be so cruel to do what they do to their child. I swear I can't understand why people like that are allowed to have children?!

For those of you subscribed to the thread, stop lurking and chat!

Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" That's why I vented in here, I ... [snip!] ... pregnant left and right when they were younger. Unless you have sent through it yourself, you have no right to talk about it"

When we saw our RE for the first time we knew after DH's S/A that we'd have to do IUI. I was a little upset at first but I thought "okay with IUI it's a sure thing that we'll get pregnant". Now after a failed IUI and knowing DH's S/A results I'm pessimistic. I feel like it won't happen, since we were advised that IVF is probably the best route for us; I just feel like it won't happen. ALL of my friends are getting pregnant right now. Today two people in my FB infertility group posted their BFPs.

I hate when people tell me, "well, God probably just wants you adopt." or "God just wants you to have only one child." Just because I'm infertile doesn't mean I have to adopt. Why can't fertile people go adopt children in need of a home? Why are these people speaking for God? I could get started on a long rant here.

As far as BC goes, I'm still having stomach pain but it's not as bad as before.