re: DRAMA!!!

Quoting IMHO:" I don't think it's bad either, but apparently I have a habit of frowning quite a bit: I attribute it ... [snip!] ... Even my now-husband, said he was afraid to talk to me when we started working together because I seemed like an icy bitch, lol!"

I am an icy bitch, a lot. lol but I'm only 5'3 so that might make a difference.

Quoting *~Katrina~*:" No one is nice in real life or the internet. Never gonna happen."

Eh I guess, but..not everybody is mean to everybody, no one would want to talk to anyone lol

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Eh I guess, but..not everybody is mean to everybody, no one would want to talk to anyone lol"

And the people that are mean aren't bitching to the nice people to be more mean. Just let people be who they are and move the hell on.

Quoting Deanna M. Williams:" Not gonna ever happen. sorry."

Well that sucks for those people then because if they catch the wrong person at the wrong time and try to pull that smurf...probably won't be a good outcome for them. Of course online someone won't get punched in the face lol but in person, some people don't have tolerance for mouth vomiting drama. Oh well, it is what it is I guess.

Quoting Deanna M. Williams:" Not gonna ever happen. sorry."

Well that sucks for those people then because if they catch the wrong person at the wrong time and try to pull that smurf...probably won't be a good outcome for them. Of course online someone won't get punched in the face lol but in person, some people don't have tolerance for mouth vomiting drama. Oh well, it is what it is I guess.

Quoting *~Katrina~*:" And the people that are mean aren't bitching to the nice people to be more mean. Just let people be who they are and move the hell on."

I agree with that lol it's just that people should just make their point and let it go and not keep feeding into it, you know what I mean? Some people just don't when to just let it the F go.  

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I agree with that lol it's just that people should just make their point and let it go and not keep feeding into it, you know what I mean? Some people just don't when to just let it the F go.  "

That's never going to change though so you need to just let it the F go as well. I mean...It's not changing so why waste your time preaching about it? kwim?

Quoting *~Katrina~*:" That's never going to change though so you need to just let it the F go as well. I mean...It's not changing so why waste your time preaching about it? kwim?"

Just speaking my mind and kwim?

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Just speaking my mind and kwim?"

And you just contradicted yourself. Because if you want to be allowed to speak your mind others should be allowed to also. Even if what they have to say is rude.

Quoting *~Katrina~*:" And you just contradicted yourself. Because if you want to be allowed to speak your mind others should be allowed to also. Even if what they have to say is rude."

No I didnt' contradict myself, my first post said "I think everyone should express/speak their opinions" some people are just unecessarily rude about it with how they word things. I'm a blunt person and I most definately speak my mine but if I can get my point across without being a total bitch then I will go that way FIRST...if I need to do go another way I will.   That's all I'm saying.

Quoting *~Katrina~*:" And you just contradicted yourself. Because if you want to be allowed to speak your mind others should be allowed to also. Even if what they have to say is rude."

I still don't understand "kwim"?

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Eh I guess, but..not everybody is mean to everybody, no one would want to talk to anyone lol"

That is the joy of diversity. I am not going to sugar coat my opinion to make someone feel better. That's not me, and I like to be myself.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" That is the joy of diversity. I am not going to sugar coat my opinion to make someone feel better. That's not me, and I like to be myself."

Meh, I'm more likely to sugar-coat something if I feel empathy for the person... but when the OP is clearly such a dipsmurf, I feel the need to make the disapproval abundantly clear and peppered with expletives... seems to be the only thing that gets across sometimes.

Quoting IMHO:" Meh, I'm more likely to sugar-coat something if I feel empathy for the person... but when the OP is ... [snip!] ... to make the disapproval abundantly clear and peppered with expletives... seems to be the only thing that gets across sometimes."

Exactly how I feel