I want a baby.

i just turned 18 and for 2 years now i have wanted a baby. i am not trying to conceive at the moment. i never have because i'm not sexually active. i do have a boyfriend, he is a year older than me and we have talked about getting married and stuff. i have 4 sets of name already picked out for each gender, i go to online baby stores and look what what i would buy. i watch videos about breast feeding and giving birth. i feel obsessed. everything i do revolves around babies. I just want to know if there is anyone like me and if you have any suggestions about how i can occupy my time so i don't think too much about babies.

Get a puppy? And occupy yourself with school.

go to school

Buy a puppy.

if you are 18 why does your profile say you are 21, and your name has the year 1990 in it [21]? -_-

I think you are a little young to think about babies. Why dont you go live your life?

Do you have a job? Are you in school?

get a puppy, finish school first, and baby sit some kids if you want to be around kids

Get a job, go to school... Have fun while you can, because going out goes out the window when you have kids.

Get a kitten.

Um yeah, like everyone else said; get a puppy.

i do go to school. i get good grades. i cant have any pets because my parents have allergies. i dont want a baby right now i want to have one when i know that ill be able to give it the best life it can possibly have. but it still doesn't stop me from thinking about it. im really 18 but i wasnt whe i joined and i didnt know if there was an age problem so i just wrote 20.

There are a lot of things that aren't fun or glamourous about motherhood. Parenting is a whole lot more than picking cute names and clothes. Parenting is being exhausted and still having to be selfless. Parenting is sacrificing your fun and desires. Parenting is a whole ton of things aren't cute, sweet, or neat.


Do you have a career? A stable job? A place of your own? If not, its selfish to try and go there.

Quoting pilot Jess:" There are a lot of things that aren't fun or glamourous about motherhood. Parenting is a whole lot more ... [snip!] ... cute, sweet, or neat. Do you have a career? A stable job? A place of your own? If not, its selfish to try and go there."

All this!

i live in the country. in Jamaica. kids starting going to school from they are babies. where i leave they do farming and everyone is retired. i'm the only one my age where i live. i cant go to my friends house and they cant come over my house. im not doing anything at all to try and have a baby i just think about what life would be like when im older and have kids.