re: Sigh...

Quoting Stu Padasso:" Yeah he's such a hypocrite, He used to be this big playboy and he's paid for many many abortions for ... [snip!] ... like he feels since he repented he can rightly judge everyone else. I don't get it. I just wish he wasn't so set in his ways. "

He should repent for treating you so smurffy about something very personal for you.
I know it hurts, but I wouldn't let it bother you too much. I have always had a tendency to feel sick to my stomach when my grandparents were upset with me, even if I had good reason for my actions, and I have just recently been able to overcome that a little with the help of my husband.
It's hard to break free of our parents' scrutiny, even as adults.
The hardest thing to come to grips with with someone that is so wrapped up in themselves is that you will probably never see them change into who you want them to be. I've learned that the hard way, more than once or twice.
Let your dad think what he wants about you, because you'll probably not change his mind anyway. But you can focus on yourself, and that precious boy of yours, and work on not letting your father's issues effect you.

Quoting thewarmth:" He should repent for treating you so smurffy about something very personal for you. I know it hurts, ... [snip!] ... anyway. But you can focus on yourself, and that precious boy of yours, and work on not letting your father's issues effect you."

Yeah I guess that's all I can really do. His loss. Thanks  

Thats horrible im sorry! If you could support another baby im sure you would of made a different decision. It's your body your choice. He can be disappointed all he wants it doesn't affect him just his beliefs it doesn't make you a bad person.

Thankfully you are at a point that you don't regret it and you know YOU did it for the right reasons. Thats all that matters. you dont owe him anything, especially since he can't even pick up the phone to call.

IF ONLY CLOSED MINDS CAME WITH CLOSED MOUTHS

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbygirl1:</b>" I dont understand how a hardcore christian could treat his own child like that. I thought the main principles of christianity were love and forgiveness."</blockquote>




Exactly.

Quoting ..MommyWife..:" IF ONLY CLOSED MINDS CAME WITH CLOSED MOUTHS  "

Haha, exactly.