New Mommy-New Worries

i just took my hpt today and yes i know for sure now that the sore nipples, wierd hair growth, and frequent urination and headaches were not in my imagination nor was i coming down with some south pacific bug...im preggers. I just told my ex-bf or bf or whatever he wants to be becuz he's acting really wierd...he's shocked for words shall i say. I'm just trying to focus on the nausea really....
i guess im just asking for advice. He doesn't seem happy and i know that this was a surprise, but, i mean him sounding so depressed is making me depressed.

it's going to take him time to get used to it, don't take it personal! wow i can't believe there's already '09 babies...this is crazy!

Take it 1 day at a time.. Having a baby is a big deal! He just might not be ready yet. But that's why you've got 9months 

Yeah, it'll take quite a lot of time for him to get used to it, I'm sure. My bf and I planned our pregnancy and even so, he didn't really grasp onto it forever! Did you two just break up or is he just acting strange? He may think that you're bluffing to try to "keep him" or something like that.

OMG a january due date!   uhg i miss it... ok sorry that was totally OT  

AHHHH 09 babies!!!... oh my gosh!... i think my heart just stopped for a second!!! welcome to babygaga!!... he will come around dont stress and if he doesnt then you dont need him!! wow... im in shock that there are 09 babies..

yes, i know it might take time, but i dont wanna end up on the maury sho guyz.......they say guys go thru different hormones.

Quoting MissLaydee-010509:“ yes, i know it might take time, but i dont wanna end up on the maury sho guyz.......they say guys go thru different hormones.”

i think he will warm up to it. at first jarrett was kinda scared but he got over it real quick. take him to a dr. appt or something when they do the heartbeat or to the ultrasounds.

Quoting MissLaydee-010509:“ yes, i know it might take time, but i dont wanna end up on the maury sho guyz.......they say guys go thru different hormones.”

if he is anything like my bf then he wont start getting excited til he sees the growing belly... then everything will change..

Quoting hunnybunchesofos:“ OMG a january due date!   uhg i miss it... ok sorry that was totally OT  ”

I know I had my son on January 29th and it just seems like yesterday but hes gonna be 3 months old tomorrow...STOP GROWING UP!!!  

Quoting Rachael!:“ Yeah, it'll take quite a lot of time for him to get used to it, I'm sure. My bf and I planned our pregnancy ... [snip!] ... two just break up or is he just acting strange? He may think that you're bluffing to try to "keep him" or something like that.”

i mean we broke up a while ago, but we did the"im stil in love with my ex and we can still have sex because i still care for you but i thnk i wanna be single" thing....that entire scenario was dumb, i know. But i mean its too late, so he should just snap outta it.

Quoting Tait's Mommy:“ I know I had my son on January 29th and it just seems like yesterday but hes gonna be 3 months old tomorrow...STOP GROWING UP!!!  ”

i had kailey Jan. 14th. it seems like yesterday   omg i cant believe it.

'My boyfriend and I have been TTC for 6 months and now that I am pregnant he really has to get used to the idea of becoming a daddy. But he is getting there. I think he will get even more involved once we told his parents (tomorrow!) and after going to the first echo (June 3rd)

he's starting to come around and i think we might even get back together...lol..now he over my house at least 3 or four times a week! when i used to see him maybe twice...makes me wonder how did i ever get preggers..lol...he cant wait for me to start showing and we're going to the first ultrasound june 11!! yay!!

I know how that feels, not being certain oif he's ok with it or not. My husband was the same way with the first time I was tould i was pregnant -long story- and the second time he even sujested I tell the dr to give me meds to kill the baby because I was so scared and torn up over it-boy did he get an earful from that-. However a few monthys later he was over joyed about it and even helped me name our baby. He's gotten compleetly paranoisd too everytime I sneese or cough he stared at me with fear as if wondering if i'm going to go in to laboer or if the baby's ok. XD it's so cute.