So selfish!

My hubby always tries to make me feel guilty about everything. The other night we were supposed to go out on a date, and I was selfish for not understanding that he was "sick" and didn't want to go out. He wasn't sick, he was messed up. But, then he got mad because I took a nap yesterday instead of cleaning, but when he's at home with the kids all he does is sleep. I understand he works 10-12 hours a day, and I only work a few, but can I not take a break once in awhile? But that's not all he's doing, and we're constantly fighting, and we work opposite shifts as each other. Am I wrong to be mad, or is he being a douche? Or is it on both ends? I don't know, I'm so confused. I think he's trying to test me, because he's only been in a relationship for seven years at a time with any girl, and we're coming up on our seventh year. But if he wants to keep me around, being an jacka** to me is not gonna make me stay.

Wow what a smurfing smurf. My husband wouldn't dare talk to me like that and I'd never be so rude to him either. Time to evaluate your relationship.

It goes both ways. My husband and I have gone thru marriage counseling. Turns out that his actions and some of the dick things he has pulled were as a result of a few feelings he had about our relationship and even me that he didn't verbalize.

Maybe you guys can visit a marriage counselor and just have a few sessions.