My hubby always tries to make me feel guilty about everything. The other night we were supposed to go out on a date, and I was selfish for not understanding that he was "sick" and didn't want to go out. He wasn't sick, he was messed up. But, then he got mad because I took a nap yesterday instead of cleaning, but when he's at home with the kids all he does is sleep. I understand he works 10-12 hours a day, and I only work a few, but can I not take a break once in awhile? But that's not all he's doing, and we're constantly fighting, and we work opposite shifts as each other. Am I wrong to be mad, or is he being a douche? Or is it on both ends? I don't know, I'm so confused. I think he's trying to test me, because he's only been in a relationship for seven years at a time with any girl, and we're coming up on our seventh year. But if he wants to keep me around, being an jacka** to me is not gonna make me stay.
It goes both ways. My husband and I have gone thru marriage counseling. Turns out that his actions and some of the dick things he has pulled were as a result of a few feelings he had about our relationship and even me that he didn't verbalize.
Maybe you guys can visit a marriage counselor and just have a few sessions.