<blockquote><b>Quoting ulove11:</b>" I just got pregnant over christmas. And I am not in a good place to have a baby really. I don't know ... [snip!] ... to expect. I thought for awhile I'd have a baby not I'm just lost on what to think. I have it scheduled next week... Advice?"</blockquote>
You would be better off in life to abort. Trust me.
Hey Hon. If you think abortion is the way to go, then you are the only one that can decide that. Think hard about it because it's something that you can't take back if you do decide to have one. I know 14 and pregnant is and will be rough. After all, you are young. But hon, this decision is up to you. If you do, you do. If you keep your baby, don't be afraid to ask for help because there are people out there that can help you. If you can't do either, there is always the option of adoption. Some people are even willing to have a open adoption with you so that you get to see pics of the baby. But always remember, you have the right to make a choice. It's all in your hands. But you do have to think fast on the decision, you dn't have much time. Don't keep or have an abortion just because its what someone else told you to do. Its up to YOU.