re: Some engagement photos

Quoting bia.:" I *think* why everybody is upset is because, she knew for months that she didnt want to go through with it."

Yeah. I get that. But still it's her baby. I don't understand some of the smurf that she's getting from others.

Quoting SwanIsAlmostDone!:" Well....the responses in this thread were not what I was expecting at all when I clicked..."

Right  
I just know the OP from her baby name thread. Lyric Rose Bosh *snort*

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" Yeah. I get that. But still it's her baby. I don't understand some of the smurf that she's getting from others. "

Meh..

Quoting bia.:" Meh.."

Eh. I'm the odd one out. I'm used to it. lol

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" Hey guys. The circumstances suck. She could have done it better. But in the end....the kid is hers and ... [snip!] ... choice. Till she signs the papers she IS the mother. I'll probably get smurf for it but whatever. SHE'S the mom. HER decision."

Yes, it is her decision to keep her baby. It was not her decision to make to make a couple think they were getting a baby. She's known for 2 months she wasn't going to give her baby up. But she never said anything. Why? Because they were paying for her classes in college, her apartment, groceries, everything. They renovated their house to bring that baby home. And here she is buying an engagement ring, pregnancy photos and engagement photos all with their money. When she knew she was going to keep the baby she needed to tell them. And instead of moving out of the apartment that they are renting for her, she called them told them the bad new and was still there. That is what's wrong here. Not her keeping her baby. Her being a lying thief.

Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" Yes, it is her decision to keep her baby. It was not her decision to make to make a couple think they ... [snip!] ... them told them the bad new and was still there. That is what's wrong here. Not her keeping her baby. Her being a lying thief."

Yeah that's wrong. But smurf. Some of the smurf I've seen people say to her isn't called for. I mean...I don't know. I haven't read a lot of her stuff. But get on her about that smurf. Not about deciding to keep the baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:</b>" Hey guys. The circumstances suck. She could have done it better. But in the end....the kid is hers and ... [snip!] ... choice. Till she signs the papers she IS the mother. I'll probably get smurf for it but whatever. SHE'S the mom. HER decision."</blockquote>




It wouldn't be bad if she hadn't used these people after knowing she wanted to keep the baby. She needs to pay them back!

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" Eh. I'm the odd one out. I'm used to it. lol"

You know. I would be completely supportive if she had just decided to keep the baby.
I could understand that as that is why I would never be able to do adoption but the fact that she took advantage of that poor couple and led them on like that just.... it kills me. And then to post like nothing has happened and that she hasn't done anything wrong is like the icing on the cake.  
Really in all. I can bitch along with all these girls all day but it's not going to change anything. But I do hope it knocks some smurfing sense into her and she pays those poor people back and is truthfully sorry for what she did to them.

Quoting Reilly and Lila's Mommy:" You know. I would be completely supportive if she had just decided to keep the baby. I could understand ... [snip!] ... it knocks some smurfing sense into her and she pays those poor people back and is truthfully sorry for what she did to them."

I agree it sucks that she led them on. That was a horrible thing to do. Absolutely.

I agree that if she had the slightest notion that she didn't want to give the baby up, she should have fessed up and stopped all financial support and/or communication. I get she had to "make her mind up" but free loading off of them while she took her time doing that, isn't right. There is no way to justify that part of the story. There just isn't. This goes beyond "it's her baby, her choice" to adopt out. I mean, really.

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" Yeah that's wrong. But smurf. Some of the smurf I've seen people say to her isn't called for. I mean...I ... [snip!] ... I mean...I don't know. I haven't read a lot of her stuff. But get on her about that smurf. Not about deciding to keep the baby."

She was financially using a couple. She has no way to pay back all that money. She openly said she said yes to them, because she didn't have anything growing up and only said yes, because who wouldn't turn down the opportunity for a free education? That is why she did it. From the very beginning. To get free money. Not earned money. Stolen money.

Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" She was financially using a couple. She has no way to pay back all that money. She openly said she said ... [snip!] ... for a free education? That is why she did it. From the very beginning. To get free money. Not earned money. Stolen money."

o.O I hadn't seen that part. Jeebus. Well hopefully for those people she pays them back one day.

The choice to keep the baby is hers, but to use people like fthat for money....yeah. Wrong.

Quoting ★ Irishewwie™:" I agree it sucks that she led them on. That was a horrible thing to do. Absolutely."

Yeah I think that's why people have gotten so hostile. Even though it has never happened to me personally it hurt. I can't imagine the pain that couple is going though. Not only because they just lost the baby they were supposed to be getting in 9 weeks but also because they are out probably around 100,000 in money that they were so wonderfully nice to spend on her.

Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" She was financially using a couple. She has no way to pay back all that money. She openly said she said ... [snip!] ... for a free education? That is why she did it. From the very beginning. To get free money. Not earned money. Stolen money."

Omg. That is terrible!