re: TTC with known risks

see but then theres peopel like this family who go to my church, they have 7 kids and live in a trailer and are debating havign an 8th child. but those kids are sooo loved, they all get along well, they are all well behaved, theyre very smart and althletic. those kind of people we can use in this world, so i dont mind them having kids.

I am in the same situation as you are and have gone back and forth with the idea of trying to have another baby. All three of my daughters were born premature, between 31-34 weeks gestation. I recently went through two miscarriages and family keeps telling me that I should be happy to have three kids and that we should stop trying for another one. I have a passion for being a mother and would love to have a big family and I find it very unfair that others assume because I have had preemies that I shouldn't try again. Justin (my husband) and I plan to wait until early next year, go sit down with a high risk specialist and discuss the pros and cons of having one more baby. I feel if you are smart and look at all possibilties and options than there is no reason why you shouldn't have another baby.