thanks ladies

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My advice would be if you don't want to do it, don't do it. You are still very early along and have a lot of time to figure things out and save up. Don't be ashamed to use assistance either til you can get back on your feet. That's what it's there for.

His family is right, you can't get an annulment while pregnant. I'm not sure what advice to offer there.

I hope everything gets better and works out for you. Just remember, it's ultimately YOUR choice and no one elses.

I cant offer any advise about the procedure but I have left an abusive partner and I think its great that you are getting yourself out of there and making plans for your future. Stay strong!

I'm sorry you're in this situation. How far along are you? Is the pill still an option? I've had an abortion. If you need anything feel free to message me, I'd be happy to help you in any way I can <3

Are you positive you want to end it?

well if your not able to take care of it by yourself then i know its not what you want but maybe aborting is for the best. although im against it i cant speck for you.
if not that then adoption

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'll Never Let Go:</b>" My advice would be if you don't want to do it, don't do it. You are still very early along and have a ... [snip!] ... offer there. I hope everything gets better and works out for you. Just remember, it's ultimately YOUR choice and no one elses."</blockquote>




honestly I am think about the best interest of the two kids I already have. They dont need to be put through this bs so I feel abortion is best. Then I can end the marriage without a long ugly divorce and move on with my life.

Quoting 1inpink1inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'll Never Let Go:</b>" My advice would be if you don't want ... [snip!] ... through this bs so I feel abortion is best. Then I can end the marriage without a long ugly divorce and move on with my life."

I'm sorry, mama  

If you feel that's what's best..than maybe it is. It's not your fault he turned into an abusive smurf  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stu Padasso:</b>" I'm sorry you're in this situation. How far along are you? Is the pill still an option? I've had an abortion. ... [snip!] ... an option? I've had an abortion. If you need anything feel free to message me, I'd be happy to help you in any way I can <3"</blockquote>




Im 11 weeks today so I dont think it is an option.

I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. I've had an abortion. If you want to know`anything you can message me anytime. I'll answer any questions you have the best I can. I wish you nothing but the absolute best.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'll Never Let Go:</b>" I'm sorry, mama   If you feel that's what's best..than maybe it is. It's not your fault he turned into an abusive smurf  "</blockquote>




Thanks but I feel like I should have seen it coming with his history of rage and this being the second abusive relationship I have gotten myself into.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kate & tilly:</b>" I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. I've had an abortion. If you want to know`anything you can ... [snip!] ... you can message me anytime. I'll answer any questions you have the best I can. I wish you nothing but the absolute best."</blockquote>




Thank you.

Quoting 1inpink1inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kate & tilly:</b>" I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. ... [snip!] ... I'll answer any questions you have the best I can. I wish you nothing but the absolute best."</blockquote> Thank you."

I've been there. I went back to the guy 3 times. :\

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'll Never Let Go:</b>" I've been there. I went back to the guy 3 times. :\"</blockquote>



I sorry to hear that. I know what it is like.

<blockquote><b>Quoting babyymama:</b>" Are you positive you want to end it?"</blockquote>




No but time is running out to decide and I have to do what is best for my family even if it hurts.