Will this ever go away?

I had an abortion Saturday and i dont regret it but it hurts so bad i just want my little baby back and my morning sickness.
I didn't think id feel this way i knew it would be easy but i think it would be so bad i wishing me and DH had seen the scan i wish i asked what they will do with my 7weeks embryo! the smurf thing is my eldest son was conceived the day of my abortion.
Please tell me these sad feelings will pass?  

Quoting BG Secrets:" I had an abortion Saturday and i dont regret it but it hurts so bad i just want my little baby back and ... [snip!] ... embryo! the smurf thing is my eldest son was conceived the day of my abortion. Please tell me these sad feelings will pass?  "

I've never had one, so I honestly don't know. I just wanted to say I'm sorry and I truly hope things get better for you and soon. I'm sure you did the right thing for you and your family. *Hugs*

you get at least 6 weeks of crazy emotions, your hormons are still those of PP so it should pass, I didn't have an abortion but I miscarried at 7-9 weeks and the hormons made me cry all the time, even tho I wasn't upset about the miscarrage, before I had to have the D&C

they do! I had mine a 1/2 week from the cut off date and I looked at the scan as well. that image is forever burned in my memory


but time will eventually help your bad feelings get better

If you truly don't regret it, those feelings will pass. I felt the same way after mine. The one thing they don't tell you is that it's okay to feel sad about it. It's still a loss, regardless of how it happened. Keep your head up hun, it will get better, you just need some time.

I really hope so guys i don't want it to mess up my marriage and relationship with my kids i have now.
And even tho i know it was right it doesnt change the fact it would of been/is my little baby.

A question does all of you who had abortions does your boobs fill with milk? As im guessing my body will think i have given birth

Quoting BG Secrets:" I really hope so guys i don't want it to mess up my marriage and relationship with my kids i have now. ... [snip!] ... question does all of you who had abortions does your boobs fill with milk? As im guessing my body will think i have given birth"

The best advice I can give you about that first part is to talk about it. If not with your husband, then with someone you can trust, someone who will listen. It's so much better to let it out than to keep it in, I think that's what helped me the most.
And as for the last part, I'm not entirely sure. I had mine at 8 weeks, and my milk never came in.

Quoting BG Secrets:" I really hope so guys i don't want it to mess up my marriage and relationship with my kids i have now. ... [snip!] ... question does all of you who had abortions does your boobs fill with milk? As im guessing my body will think i have given birth"

at the 7 week mark i wouldn't think it would be likely

Quoting H ♥ A & R (24):" The best advice I can give you about that first part is to talk about it. If not with your husband, then ... [snip!] ... what helped me the most. And as for the last part, I'm not entirely sure. I had mine at 8 weeks, and my milk never came in."

Yea me and DH talk about it and we just end up in tears thank you guys as long as i know it will past. Till then il just let it all out when i need to.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I had an abortion Saturday and i dont regret it but it hurts so bad i just want my little baby back and ... [snip!] ... embryo! the smurf thing is my eldest son was conceived the day of my abortion. Please tell me these sad feelings will pass?  "</blockquote>




Hang in there mama:-(. I can relate.Even though I wasn't conflicted about mine I still grieved for a while,off and on.
It does get easier, you'll cope and get through it.It might feel scary now but it will hurt less as time goes.

Hugs

I have had 3 abortions all for different reasons, The way you feel now will pass but you hold it with you for years later especially the what if's of it. It does get easier as time passes. It is a hard decision to make and even harder to follow through, let me say with each of mine it was difficult. and years later when i wanted to have a baby I always thought about them, and the what ifs of it. im sorry for your pain, it is a difficult road to travel but iit does get easier.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I had an abortion Saturday and i dont regret it but it hurts so bad i just want my little baby back and ... [snip!] ... embryo! the smurf thing is my eldest son was conceived the day of my abortion. Please tell me these sad feelings will pass?  "</blockquote>

I still get upset all the time, but I had one within this past month. I wish I could have taken the child I killed and barried them instead of them discarding it as human waste. This is the thing that hunts me most. Wondering where my child when I know that seems stupid but it is a heavy burden on my heart

Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I had an abortion Saturday and i dont regret ... [snip!] ... is the thing that hunts me most. Wondering where my child when I know that seems stupid but it is a heavy burden on my heart"

can't you request the aborted fetus so you can bury it? I know you can request spicfic things done with tem here, I wantted to give my miscarried one to research but I have a blood disorder so they couldn't use it

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kea O_O:</b>" can't you request the aborted fetus so you can bury it? I know you can request spicfic things done with ... [snip!] ... things done with tem here, I wantted to give my miscarried one to research but I have a blood disorder so they couldn't use it"</blockquote>

I found out afterwords that you can   but I was only 3 weeks along so they didn't even ask me.

i had an abortion in 2007. i always remember the day and have always gotten depressed around the time it happened. i couldn't go around babies or look at baby items for a long time. i was able to learn from my experience about 3 years ago and finally started moving on. i will always love the little baby i gave back to god (or whatever name u choose to use) but i always kept in my mind i would get my child back when i was ready. which was around new years of 2012. can't wait to see my baby....i've waited so long. don't beat urself up. sometimes the best thing for a child is what a higher source can give., not us. hope u feel better.